Hello ladies,
I am mostly a lurker but I have posted here in the past when I first found out about OC, 2 years ago. My H does not have contact with OC at all. OC lives in the same city, actually very close by but H has never met him. We were orginally supposed to meet 2 years ago at a public location but OW filed back child support papers without letting H know and he got very angry and cancelled the meeting. Since then, he told OW that he wants no contact with her or OC. We pay child support but that is it. Am I the only one here who has a problem with the fact that H is not being a father to OC? OC has no real father figure in his life and he is getting to the age where I know that he is starting to question who his father is (4 years old). I have told H how I feel about the situtation but I have not/will not push him in that direction. I guess part of me realizes that eventually H will have to answer to OC why he chose not to be a part of his life and I don't think the fact that H doesn't get along with OW is going to cut it in OC eyes. Just wondering if anyone else felt this way.