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#821449 06/24/03 02:17 PM
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If the post was deleted, the admins should have put a note, at least saying it was deleted.

I would HIGLY recommend you send an email to the admins of this forum.

Tempest - tempest@mhcable.com
Xaralel - xarelel2@aol.com
Justuss - justuss2@aol.com
Raizel - mb_raizel@yahoo.com

If something is deleted because it is innapropriate, fine, but at least let us know.

If it was in fact deleted, my guess is because it because it has nothing to do with marriage building and it keeps people from here going over there and causing a ruckus.

People could find it easily enough without posting it here, but it keeps the two boards from being "at odds" with each other.

<small>[ June 24, 2003, 02:19 PM: Message edited by: Chris -CA123 ]</small>

#821450 06/26/03 12:22 AM
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Chris-CA123,
"If the post was deleted, the admins should have put a note, at least saying it was deleted."
"If something is deleted because it is innapropriate, fine, but at least let us know."

A reminder of the MB policy which all members agreed to upon registration:
"we at this BB reserve the right to delete any post for ANY or NO reason whatsoever."
Policy does not say anywhere that the moderators are expected or required to explain their decisions. To delete a post to avoid board wars and to offer an explaination as to why it was deleted tends to draw attention and defeats the purpose.

"If it was in fact deleted, my guess is because it because it has nothing to do with marriage building and it keeps people from here going over there and causing a ruckus."
A fairly obvious conclusion, we thought.

isitmeorhim (aka cantbelieve)
"Somebody comes here, wanting information to ascertain what site can lead to the best information that pertains to their situation, and my response is deleted, with no explanation or written reason whatsoever."
Would a ***POOF*** have helped? Or a reminder that THIS is a support site for Marriage Builders only?

At any rate, this will be my last post, I won't bother in the future, even if I have the information that will help another. "
A current MOW actively involved in an EMR posting a link to an OW website is NOT conducive to Marriage Building.

Justuss and Xarelel

#821451 06/26/03 09:20 AM
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A reminder of the MB policy which all members agreed to upon registration:
"we at this BB reserve the right to delete any post for ANY or NO reason whatsoever."
Policy does not say anywhere that the moderators are expected or required to explain their decisions. To delete a post to avoid board wars and to offer an explaination as to why it was deleted tends to draw attention and defeats the purpose.

As I wrote, "If the post was deleted, the admins should have put a note, at least saying it was deleted."
It doesn't (necessaraily) need to be explained but if I post something and it doesn't show up, I will suspect the forum software is messed up, not that posts are getting deleted by ??

<small>[ June 26, 2003, 09:21 AM: Message edited by: Chris -CA123 ]</small>

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