alright everyone... let's all take off the gloves and say what we really feel! oh wait, that's what's going on right now.

seriously folks, this is really getting stupid.

i just mentioned this in another post, but i'm gonna take this moment to remind you of what's said in the "general welcome for all new builders" section:

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">We do not always agree with each other on how to handle situations... but each of us is offering to you advice based on individual experiences. Search out those people on the forum that have experiences similar to yours...
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">why don't we get back to helping people who've come here asking for advice... gt, libbynthreegirls, and day by day are a few who've written lately and not gotten much in way of response.

we can do better then fighting and name calling. if we're gonna discuss an issue (and a super sensitive one at that!), let's at least be grown up and civil about it. and if we can't, then moooove on.

amy

thanks Amethyst, I wish someone could give me some advice, I'm starting to worry about financial concerns since H. lives with OW and she is going to start expecting him to chip in, now that she is pg. Also she is having money problems too, so now my H. is getting back to work and we will be better off. Don't know how to proceed. crazy sit.