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Some days I am o.k., other days I feel like I can't take it anymore. Husband has 2 year old with ow. I have never really met the oc because husband says why would she want her child around me. We don't live together,not my choice, we don't see much of each other either. He says he doesn't want a divorce, what does he want. We are not legally separated either, he also supports me finacially. I don't know, thanks for listening anyway.
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Cheryls,
I would like to give you some encouragement. It seems that there is not hardly any one that I know that has not been touched by infidelity in one way or the other. I have a friend that married her high school sweetheart. A few years into their marriage and after the birth of their son her husband had an affair with a co-worker. They divorced and he married the co-worker and they had a daughter. Well, needless to say that marriage didn't work out for him either. In the mean time my friend had remarried and her marriage didn't work out. Some how in between each of their relationship's God restored their marriage. Their children are grown today. The last time I talked with my friend she told me that her husband had told her that he was trying to make up to her for all that he had done to her in early years of their marriage. The other woman's daughter lives with them now. And she calls my friend mom as well as her own mom. You are in a bad situation, but there is hope. If he doesn't want a divorce he is hanging on for some reason. Pray and ask God for what He has joined together let no or any thing put asunder. I believe that you are still in a covenant with God and your husband and he with you and God.
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Terianna, Thank you so much for your words of encouragement. I know my post didn't sound like it but I do put my trust in God and have faith that He will restore my marriage. God knows I am human and He understands my emotions. Most everyone in my family thinks I am a fool for hanging on to my marriage. I have never gotten one word of encouragement from anyone of them. Anyway, thank you
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