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I am ready to implement plan B, as of this weekend. I need prayer for strength, and for the $ to make the actual move. "Our" house was never "my" house, its always been his house, so I am moving into an apartment )he owned it for almost 10 years before our marriage). I need prayer for the final monies to do so. All along he said "let me know what you need," and since he donesn't even want to try to salvage the marriage, I thought it would be no problem. I began implementation about a month ago (2.5 mos after d-day) and now that it's coming down, he's saying he has no $, etc. All talk, as usual. Please join me in prayer that not only will the Lord provide the $ for the move, but He'll make it viable for me to live and take up my slack. I pray for wisdom to stretch every dollar, and never, ever, ever be tempted to disregard my tithe thinking I need it to pay my bills.!! OC was born 10/2 and the custody battle is now ready to begin! All along I was willing to help him fight and raise this baby boy, but without HIS willingness to fight, AT ALL COSTS, it can't work. I pray our separation will bring him to the end of himself and to a true godly repentance!

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Dear Believe...

You are in my prayers as I storm the heavens for financial relief for you. I would think if your husband is determined to move forward, he would subsidize your move into an apartment. Under the circumstances, it is the LEAST he can do. Without knowing much of your story, I can't give much advice, but I will keep you in my prayers.

I am so very sorry things have taken this turn for you. Stay strong and keep the faith....a flawless Plan B is extremely effective in many ways.

Catnip =^^=

<small>[ October 21, 2003, 09:11 PM: Message edited by: catnip ]</small>

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BelieveHeIs,
Strange things happen when WS is in a fog... Blessings on your move and I wish I could grant you all the money you need to provide for yourself during this horribly painful event. ~ugh~

You two may well still be together.

PlanB and time is now on your side.

Blessings... Prayers of abundance fro you to accept things.

love
Debi

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Hopefully a good solid Plan B will wake him up to what he is losing!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

You are in my prayers!


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