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Hey all,
I just wanted to let all of you know that my wife recently ended all contact with OM. We are progressing with our marriage and preparing for the arrival of our child in the spring. Once "she" is born we'll have the DNA test to determine paternity and face the music together, stronger than we are today.
Thank you all for your prayers and encouragment. And a big thanks to Full House. My W, identies with so much of what you post. It has helped her in knowing that there is someone else who feels the way(s) she does.
She reached out and hugged me for the longest time this past weekend. I told her that I love it when she holds me. When she looked up at me I said, not to long ago it wasn't like this. She responded wryly, "I don't know what you're talking about," and hugged me all the harder.
The road to recovery is not a sprint, and many of us who are wounded by our spouses would like things fixed "yesterday." (at least I know I did)
When I look at things now, I am reminded that God is in control and taking care of us in His time and not mine/ours.
Keep running, even if you fall down.
Love to you all,
Murph
<small>[ November 18, 2003, 05:12 PM: Message edited by: Murph94 ]</small>
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Hurrayyyyy Murph94!!!!
Such a happy update!! Keep reading, keep posting and most of all,,Keep us updated!!!
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What a great update!! Wonderful news!
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Murph,
Great news!!! And I agree 1000% with the title of this post---it truly is a marathon. You start out at a reasonable pace, to not burn yourself out.
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murph,,,,,,, that is truely great news.you will continue to be in our prayers.
great title to your post. pops
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I'm a sucker for happy endings, Murph. It sounds like you two are well into recovery, taking it one small step at a time. God is granting you patience, understanding and is blessing you with a renewed outlook of your marriage.
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Now, the work begins! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
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CONGRATS!!!
I, too, agree with the title of this post!!
It is so true in every aspect of dealing with the aftermath of an A.
Hugs to you and yours!!
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<img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> I hope your life is full and happy and all you want it to be!!
Your future has dips and swerves, as does anyones life. Now you are ready for your future, together. I know that life can be happy and wonderful, and sad, and crazy, and fun, and every emotion there is!!! Your marriage will be fine and you will enjoy your life with your wife.
Good for you two.
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Murph94, <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> Hope it continues for the best! Debi
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May God bless you and your family! It's great to hear such a wonderful post!
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murph,
this is fullhouse speaking on pops signature-i just read your post today and am very happy for you and your w, if ever she would like to talk, i would be happy to give her my email address, its a bumpy road but well worth it. love full house
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Ahh, that mad me cry! I am so very happy for you! I am new here and I dont know the story, but to just see this it makes me happy.
Good luck though everything! You will be in my thoughts.
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