Hi,
My girlfriend and I are going out for the over 2 years . 5 weeks ago we found out she was pregnant. I was looking forward to it big time. But then we decided to be straight and she told me a few things and then i told her that i i had drunken one night stand 1.5 years ago. I'm not sure why i did it but back then I never had the feeling she'd respect me at all or liked anything i said or did. Why i didnt tell her i dont know and why I didnt break up i dont know either. Then months after it happened I started loving her and a while later I loved her really bad.Most of ye might not believe that but it is true cause i know it in my heart and i still do. when i told her she wanted to abort and i know i broke her heart but i needed to tell her although it was the worst possible time but i needed to. Now after a lot of talks and stuff we are trying to sort this out. She says she might only get over this by doing it herself. I frankly dont know what to do i'm not a monster and i wont do it again. And what hurt me most was when a week ago she siad shed go for an abortion a day later and when i called her after a sleepless night she said she just got it done which messed me up big time cause i was really looking forward to my first one. the 3 hours later she called and said she didnt do it, which made me happy but really angry too cause i thought revenge wise that went too far.
Well now we are talking and are going for the first scan tomorrow. But things are still hard.

Please help, we wanna work it out i just need some help on what to do. HELP PLEASE!!