Just dealing with the calm before the storm that's going to happen once the OW decides to do something.

When one of us is home alone, we hide our car. We write down everthing including the time, that we've done that day. We call friends so that we can prove we were home at a particular time. We survey the neighborhood to see if she's stalking us (yes, she does this).

Is this a way to live? No...but hopefully, it will end eventually. I just hope my sanity will remain intact.

Sorry, I just needed to vent a little. I didn't mean to depress anyone.

Don't be anxious about anything...pray.
Phillipians 4:6

Keep the faith and hang in there. So sorry you have to live life like this - hopefully very temporary. I pray the legal system deals with OW and she is out of your lives for good soon. Please stay safe.

I hope things improve for you. Isn't it something how OW gets together with WS and then when everything goes sour wants to blame and hurt everyone. Don't any of them have the slightest bit of a brain? Maybe the fact that WS was unavailable in the first place should be a clue.
You are in my prayers.

My husband just got a copy of the police report that the city attorney wouldn't let me see at my first court date. You should see the lies that the OW told the police about me!!!! And come to find out that I now have a criminal record because of her actions. All because I changed my husband's cell phone # to stop her from leaving threatening messages.

All I can say is "what a bunch of steaming bull-crap!!!" I just got finished re-reading it and typing out my statement. I was so angry that I took it out on my keyboard and now my fingers hurt.

I'm sorry to post this in the pregnancy forum, since it doesn't deal specifically with a pregnancy issue, but this is where I post the most often.

Why does the OP in an affair have to resort to such malicious behavior to get revenge? This includes getting pregnant on purpose to destroy a marriage, just so that they may have something to hang onto? Why is it so difficult to find someone that's not married and start a relationship with them? Are married people more attractive or something? What part of "I'm sorry, but I can't see you anymore" don't they understand???? Why bring an innocent child into this type of scenario? I know...selfishness knows no bounds, right?

And no....I still am not 100% certain if the OW is pregnant. She failed to show up in court when the permanent restraining order was granted. She probably did this so that we are forced to continually wonder. Either I hire another private investigator to follow her, or I wait until October, when my husband is ordered to take a paternity test. Time seems to move so slow when you're dying to know the truth, doesn't it?

Sorry for ranting here, I kind of needed to get it off my chest before I punched something.

AB, Yes it does ! This hurry up and wait thing is hard to deal with. But it does give us time to work on our M and get things in order before. P/I's are very expensive! But you would be better off useing a PI, cause if you do it your stalking. Crazy, they disrupt your life and to get proof of something, you get into trouble. Can an attorney make her prove she is pg? I would hate to know I was that mental that I had to pull crap like this. I have more respect for myself I guess. I am a LADY, not a person how doesn't have much respect for herself. Maybe thats the reason H come home and stay home, cause they know we are ladies and not OW type. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> Good luck to ya!
Oh and just go ahead a vent, thats why we are here.
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