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H Xow has changed her mind. In the past she has stated that she would never let H have J (oc) alone and she would never let J stay the night when H is around. Last week Sunday she had H watch J for 1 1/2 hrs and this past weekend J was able to stay the whole weekend. She also mentioned that he could come over next weekend also.
I'm so happy but a bit cautious. Normally her parents would have J alot. Just about every weekend and sometimes during the week also. Her father had major surgery last week and they can't take him anymore. So I have a feeling this is why these visits all of a sudden started. She has 2 other kids with her H, but she treats them all like crap. When we picked J up friday she had the 2 younger ones (2 & 4) locked in a room and her house was beyond disgusting.....
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where have you been girl?
Well, if she is treating her children bad/wrong & OC, you have a responsibility to do everything in your power to help @ least OC.
Maybe this would be a good time to look into some legal support for your H & this child.
How are YOU doing?
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> How are YOU doing? </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I'm hear, that's about it. H is hounding me all the time. He expects me to drop what ever I'm doing and spend time with him. I don't know if I can do this.....
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