Dh and I had our date night Friday instead of Saturday - but it was still fun.
We went to Buffalo Wild Wings for dinner - never been there before - LOVE their wings. Had two Shiners. Oy! Reminded me of when I was single in Austin. I ALWAYS drank Shiner when I went out then....I can only imagine the carb loading I was doing!
Then we went to Target to buy a wedding gift for my cousin and his gf who are getting married this Sunday (okay - does anyone but me find it more than slightly ironic to be married on INDEPENDENCE day?). While we were there we got that CD by...whatsherface?....that chica that sings Rednecked Girls...oy!...what ever her name is....DON'T BUY THAT CD if you are still hurtin pretty bad over the cheatin'. I swear every song but a couple on there was about (ahem) one kind of indescretion or another. There was one about the singer taking the OW "out back" and dh turned to me and asked if I ever felt that way....um....not me personally, was my reply, but I'm not above wishing her getting hit by a bus every now and then....Then I told him I didn't want to talk about her or "it" really. Like Pumba in Lion King, I'm trying to put my behind in my past <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> .....or by past behind me, whatever.
So after Target (pronounced tar-je), we go to the tattoo shop and check out the art. I've been looking for an oriental symbol for "crysalis" to go above my butterfly - meaning, like a crysalis I am in the process of becoming something more ... beautiful - I figure this is the best description of my life - I am constantly in the "process." My butterfly stage will be when I sit next to God's throne. They don't have one, tho, and referred me to a lady at the Japanese Arts museum. Gonna talk to her this week.
Holy Moly - this is philosophic Monday, eh?
Then we went to see Van Helsing. Okay. I didn't really go to see Van Helsing. I went to see Hugh Jackman - but I told dh that it looked like a cool movie just so....hehehe. Got a Hugh Jackman fix to last awhile now. Num. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
By the time the movie let out it was after 1. Went home and to bed <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> . Thank goodness the little guys are at sils!
My big boy and his friend and I went to Port A yesterday to visit my mom. We rented a surfboard while we were there. That was dang cool! We are def. gonna have to invest in one! The boys even got surfing tips from Pat McGee himself (major surf dude who is a board builder, also)!
Dh and I talked yesterday about the babies. I've been dying to ask, but didn't want to seem pushy about all the plans he's been making regarding them. He keeps saying stuff like, "we gotta get a bigger house," and, "we gotta get our [censored] together..." He would say that in the past before he began sleeping with the tart again - insinuating that we'd sue for custody of mija. He'd stopped saying it I guess when he started with her again and would tell me that "he couldn't take a child from it's mother." He knows, tho, that those kids have a better chance of having any future if they're with us (since she lives off the govt., and won't get a job, and sees nothing wrong with her way of life), and I guess it's sunk in. So it looks like a lot of custody hearings are in our future.
The good news is about that - knowing OW like we both do, neither of us sees that she will keep up with visitation and such. SO. If we ever get custody, contact with her would probably end up less than minimal.
- Kimmy
