Hey everyone. We got a phone call tonight and the OW is at the hospital. She is going into labor and they are trying to stop it. its way to early for this child to be born. So I need everyones prayers for the Lord to take over and that everything will come out as he has planned. I hope if the baby is born that everything is in place for him to be ok. For God to do his will and be by us (all of us BS,WS,OW) no matter what.
Thanks for the prayers and talk to you tomorrow. We are going to the hospital to see how everything is.
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> Sunny D.

Praying for you all. Hang in there - God will watch over all of you. You are going to be such a blessing to this baby's life.

Prayers said for all.

I'm sending you lots of strength! Love and prayers are coming your way!

- Kimmy

Sunny,

Saying a prayer 4 all of u.

Prayers really work. The baby and mom are doing fine and are at home today. She was having contractions every 10 min and dialated 1-1/2 CM. The meds where making her and the babies heart rate jump high. And to let you know how good prayers are and work. Soon after I posted everything stopped. So thanks to everyone who prayed for us! Needless to say I feel kind of strange this morning and have alot of things running though my mind. I start my vacation today and will be leaving out of town tommorrow. I'm not going to be back til 12th july. But I have BBG's number and she will keep ya'll updated. Again thanks so much for the prayers and support!
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> Sunny D

That is great news! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

All I can say is - God is GOOD the time & all the time God is GOOD!

Praise God!

Maybe this scare will help ow to put things in perspective? What's really important, and all that. I hope so...for everyone's sake.

Have a wonderful, and relaxing vacation. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />

Well I didn't get a chance to send you a prayer-just updated myself this morning but I'm so glad that all is well.

Have a wonderful vacation--I'm off after today on vacation until the 12th also. Again, my thoughts are with you, your H, OW & OC.

Hi Sunny,

I missed your earlier post. I had to go to the Doctor. I will post update. Anyhow you show a big heart. I am so glad everthing worked out. I am taking a vacation from July 5th till July 8th.

Well we should have planned a cruise! I know we all could use it!!! Thanks again to everyone.
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> Sunny D

Sunny,
Sorry I missed your first post. Glad everything worked out. Please keep us posted.

Sunny,

My prayers are with you and I hope that you have glorious time on your vacation.
BE SWEET!!


JT

Just an update. OW went to doc and she is now back to work. Baby is fine and weighs 3 lbs. So she just has to take care of herself. Which I think she doesn't, but, can't do anything about that. I think H realized she was playing the POOR ME, thing. I asked if he was going to run and jump so quick the next time and he said no. We shall see. Still have not LB'ed on this but have put alot of prayer and thought into it. So as it may I asked H if he wanted to go to the dr w/ her or had a need to and he said no. I told him also if he felt the need to be there when the OC is born, then I would not stop him. It would hurt me because he said he wasn't at first, but if he had the need then Ok. I know that sounds crazy but I wouldn't want him to tell me not to do something I felt I needed to do. So we shall see. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> He still insist that I be there, if just for him. I still am praying about that. So have I just lost my mind or what? Oh and ever since I told him that I have had a crazy dream of her having the baby and I am in the room, and it dies? OMG. And then it is like it was on rewind, over and over again I have had this dream. Why? So I stated taking my good night sleep tight pills and I don't dream of nothing!.
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> Sunny D

Sunny it's understandable the dreams. It's the stress. I've had some bad dreams every night about xmm and our court date that is coming up...and although the dreams are sordof different, the converstions are the same. I think if you went to the hospital but stay your distance from her, and out of her way but there for your husband there would be no harm done. But if it's going to bother you way to much I'd stay away. She can't stop you from coming into her room but not the hospital. It's just getting closer to the date and the sub mind is at work......I know it to well.

NTMO, thanks for the words. I want to be there for him, but in the same sense, I don't want me being there to upset her to the point something bad happens. Just about ALL of our friends think I have lost it. But its just the way I am. If I wasn't comfortable in mine and H relationship, I guess it would be different. But our relationshiip is so strong now and we are two different people now. H said last night he had talked to OW and she was ok with me being there, but I know when your in labor and the pain takes over, sometimes you don't like anyone! Of course I had C-sections and I was out for both of mine, so I didn't care about too much. But I do know several folks that just went crazy when they started labor, so I don't know. I guess the stress of me thinking about it is just getting to me. I know that God will do his will no matter what but I just feel if I'm there and something does happen then everyone (her family) is going to be thinking I caused it some how. Seeing how its MY fault he came back home and he is not with her. I guess maybe I just don't want to be around her family. I have two girl friends that are planning to go with me, if I go. They just don't want me up there alone. But we still have several months to go so maybe by then I will feel at ease with going.
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> Sunny D

If your H goes, YOU go. Both of you can be in the waiting area, TOGETHER. No reason for him to be in labor/delivery room. IMO, no reason for him to be anywhere near the hospital, period. But, I understand it's a personal decision between the two of you.

AD we do have a bike trip (Harley group) at the same time. At first we where going to take a cruise, but this was set just a few weeks ago and we have just been waiting on the dates. So I hope maybe we will be gone anyway! I just hope it starts after we leave and not before we leave. Cause once we are gone, were not coming home til its over.
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> Sunny D

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">If your H goes, YOU go. Both of you can be in the waiting area, TOGETHER. No reason for him to be in labor/delivery room. IMO, no reason for him to be anywhere near the hospital, period. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Sunny - I agree w/ AD, why does H need to be there at all? But if so you should be with him in the waiting room - if you both agree on that. Maybe the Lord will work it out so that you are both out of town when she delivers.

As long as you use POJA on this it will work out whatever route you chose.