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#831572 07/17/04 07:36 PM
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I guess it's my turn, but where to start and where to end and how many questions should I ask!

Here goes:

WS has a brief PA with an icky (nice term) woman. OC due 09/04.

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IANS,

Sorry to welcome u to MB, r u & your H still together? What do u plan 2 do?

U will find much support here, & again sorry u have 2 b here.

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Thanks for the welcome. I just spent half and hour typing up a blurb about my situation only to have it disappear. It wasn't my intention to just submit the initial little "blurb", but my hands go faster than brain and so does my mouth on occasion - both good and bad. I'll get the hang of this hopefully sooner than later. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> Will get to reformating post a bit later.

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Yes, still together. No "worry" - - for lack of a better word about OW and H being together. Don't know what I'm going to do for sure - - depends what day it is. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

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IANS,

Sorry I didn't get back 2 u earlier, my computer was acting up.

Read all u can here on this site, especially Surving An Affair, if u can get H to read 2 that would b great & help a lot.

Is H still in contact w/ OW & u r planning to have DNA done when OC arrives I hope as I am sure OW will want CS. Have u 2 discussed contact or not w/ OC once he/she arrives? Of course working on repairing the damage 2 your M is priority at this point that is y reading & studying all the MB principles is so important.

There r many here who have survived this w/ or w/o contact & can give u great advice, keep posting, more people r here during the week than the weekends.

#831577 07/19/04 03:33 PM
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IANS. How r u doing? we haven't heard anything from you and wow youngest child is 20? Oh boy I bet u r stressing. Mine is 11 and I cant imagine how its going to be w/ little one. Have u and H discussed contact or do you want contact? And your M is doing good and he's not in contact w/ the OW still? We are all praying for you and hope things calm down for you.
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