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#831737 07/20/04 07:49 AM
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Thought I would create a new post for this. The other is getting long. Have fun.

I will add one from yesterday.

Everyone's idea about what we all look like gave me and I think each of us a good smile/laugh for the day.

#831738 07/22/04 12:07 AM
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I am finding peace in myself. I no longer fret about what husband does. I know he has a choice and I have a choice, he can respect me and I will stay. Or he can disrespect me and I will kick him out. It is that simple.

#831739 07/22/04 10:56 AM
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It is one day closer to Friday! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Another great day -highs around 96 <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />


Wish I was at home just laying in the sun reading a book. Instead I'm at work and I need to mow the lawn when I get home-mind you a riding mower thank goodness with the heat.

#831740 07/22/04 11:01 AM
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Today is another day. I was up late with my son due to a summer cold. H stayed home last night.
Kids got off to school very well this morning.

JT

#831741 07/22/04 11:08 AM
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My happy 4 today, H & I had a great nite last nite. I was visiting a friend & he was working & stopped by. This is the friend that introduced us & a lot of her family were there, he said he stopped cuz he saw me sitting on the porch, gave me 3 kisses & chatted briefly w/ me & my friends.

Later I apologized 2 him 4 not believing he was working in the evening, he accepted it & told me he wouldn't have stopped at all but it was a pleasant surprise to see ME. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Kimmy - just wanted U 2 know never open pop rocks & not eat them right away, kind of form a sponge & lose desired affect! I am probably the only goof 2 do that though. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Embarrassed]" src="images/icons/blush.gif" />

#831742 07/22/04 11:14 AM
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ROTFLMAO!

Would try pop rocks since that is a SF my H enjoys but he hasn't stayed over recently when I'm there and doesn't seem interested in SF--trying to come with a good plan to seduce him but I haven't thought of one yet--any good ideas?

Niosgirl~I'm sure you must have some I mean after the pop rocks and all!

#831743 07/22/04 11:16 AM
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TMI! TMI! TMI! LMAO! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Lessee - today's happy...um. Um. Um. My boss isn't here so I can play with you all? Does that count?

Today sad: I'M ONE FRICKIN NICKLE SHORT OF A DIET DR. PEPPER. Nope. Not bitter at all about that one (and I'm tellin' you I am so desperate I've gone through my purse 3 times, my desk twice and my boss' desk twice)!

- Kimmy

#831744 07/22/04 11:18 AM
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Missed you yesterday-glad you are back to play.!

#831745 07/22/04 11:52 AM
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Okay-kind of hijacking for a moment.

So what do you guys all think about the whole lack of SF. It confuses me because when H was having A/fling last summer he still wanted SF from me. Now, he doesn't really seem to want to--I'm totally feeling inadequate--before A it was me not caring about SF--the whole had baby thing not secure with body, tired etc. Now H doesn't seem into it.

Strange--normally they want SF even if they don't love you etc.

Just wanted some opinions and advice.

#831746 07/23/04 12:20 AM
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It's part of the withdrawl - I know the A has been over for your dh for awhile, but he's trying to come to terms w/what he's done. Give him about 5-6 weeks and see if it gets better. SH wrote about it in the Surviving the A.

Happened EXACTLY like that with Nio. I'd say it's par for course considering all the stuff your dh has been saying/doing lately. He's working through this.

- Kimmy

#831747 07/23/04 12:33 AM
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My happy thought for day.

Got my hair cut and colored last night. Looking good <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

Finished a cost estimate at work that needed to be done. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> Bad thought, have another due <img border="0" title="" alt="[Embarrassed]" src="images/icons/blush.gif" />

Talked to H last night, was nice, then we faught then we were nice to each other. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> We are crazy.

Albany,
Much like you, I was not into SF during A (before I knew of it) because I just had my son and I was HUGE. My H would have it with me but not often and all and I was not complaiing. After I found out about the A, things changed drasticly in the area of SF. It was often and better. HOWEVER, my H never went thought WD because he continued to see OW behind my back.

#831748 07/23/04 12:43 AM
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I FOUND A NICKLE....
I FOUND A NICKLE....
I FOUND A NICKLE....

(happy sigh) Diet DP is da bomb-diggity!

<img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

- Kimmy

#831749 07/23/04 12:47 AM
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I thought you were not drinking pop!

#831750 07/23/04 12:49 AM
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I'm allowed 2 a day! No one said a darn thing about how big (12 vs 20 ozs) hehehehehe!

(sob) I wanted a beer last night - and alas! Not one in the house!

I did have a Killian's Irish Red at the Olive Garden Monday, tho. Nummers!

- Kimmy

#831751 07/22/04 01:39 PM
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must say that I like Black Butte Porter or better yet even is Moose Drool.

I'm thinking a BBP after mowing the lawn could be good. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

The olive garden sounds nummy--have drive to different town 20-25 minutes for that though.

#831752 07/22/04 01:54 PM
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Albany,

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Niosgirl~I'm sure you must have some I mean after the pop rocks and all!</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Always remember & never 4get Kimmy is the "Pop Rock Goddess"

Seriously though do U think the AD's might have something 2 do w/ H's not wanting SF? If so there isn't much U can do about that is there?

I am not sure what 2 tell U 2 try, looking your best, which I am sure U already do, & being sweet when he is around but not pushing him if he isn't into it. Most of all being patient & not LBing & prayer.

#831753 07/22/04 02:19 PM
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In all seriousness, do you girls really use pop rocks during SF?

#831754 07/22/04 02:25 PM
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Luv - you're too cute for color TV!

Yes....but only on special occasions...hehehehe!

#831755 07/22/04 02:33 PM
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OK. Clue me in. I am guessing that it's during an act for his pleasure? Do they really like it? Might need to try it....if H get's on my good side. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

#831756 07/22/04 02:35 PM
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Since I haven't actually experienced this myself I really had to let you answer Niosgirl and I was anxiously awaiting your response and ROTFLMAO.

I inquired a bit about it after you first mentioned it and had heard it was a known addition to SF by some and not with others.

My luck-I would choke on those damn things and LOL! wouldn't that be embarassing--I also LMAO thinking of you telling you H some new pop rocks conversation.

You had better share something knew with us because we are all really stuck on this pop rocks thing. Hope we make you blush and laugh every time!

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