I HATE MY SIL (I know, my bad, but I seriously can't help it right now). Not the one I told you about that keeps the kids and is SO VERY GOOD!

I'm talking about the one that would sit around chatting with Nio's aunt, slamming white women (they're Hispanic), WITH ME IN THE ROOM, then turn to me and say, "No offense, Kim."

I'm talking about the one that THREW A FIT at my wedding because she was pg and didn't want to pick up Nio's G'ma at the hairdressers, so left the poor, blind woman there and my bil had to pick her up after hours of G'ma sitting there. Then the biotch had the nerve to show up JUST at the reception....ug!

All through my marriage she's done/said things to get jabs in.

I know of countless "white collar" crimes she's committed - signing my mil signature on insurance docs AFTER she'd been diagnosed with cancer - with her as the beneficiary. Going to the dmv after mil had passed and forging mil's name on the title so it would be in her name.

Here's the kicker! This morning, we get a call from a lawyer in Houston saying my dh is on the board of officers for some company out of San Antonio that we've never even heard of. The co. is being sued. It was set up in 1999, with dh's name and HER name (as another officer). She'd (we assume) used his name and social security # to do this.

I'm panicking!!!!!!!!!!!!!

- Kimberly

Niosgirl,

You should be able to dispute this, and it should be somewhat easy to do. I know that it's minor compared to what you are looking at, but when I had my wallet stollen, they used my SSN to get 2 seperate cell phones, charge up over $3500 in one month, then never pay the bills(this was when you could order a phone and service over the phone with just your SSN). I was able to dispute it, have the collections stopped and the discrepency removed from my credit report. I had to sign 2 affidavits and have them notorized.

There should be SOMETHING that you can do, such as having some one who's a handwriting expert compare signatures(SIL had to have signed Nio's name to something to "get him" on the board as an officer) and catch her in this major situation!

Other than that, I have nothing else to offer you. Good luck and I'll keep you both in my prayers.

Tigger

Niosgirl,

Keep your cool. You are a very lovely woman and besides the racists comments of your sil your H picked you - she did not. You might have to get her in check just one good time to let her know that you don't appreciate it. I can assure you if she feels that you will not allow that type of conversation to occur in front of you then she will not be so inclined to do it, in the future. Assert yourself woman. You are entitled to be proud of your race just as anyone else should.

Besides are we not all children of God - no matter what race, creed or color?

But take it from me spill it and she will chill it!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

JT

JT - we've cut off all ties with her - no communication with her since my mil passed in 2001. I just wanna chew her a new one.

Oh. And this is one of those people that sin all through the week, then go to church on Sunday and thinks it's a "get out of hell free" card.

- Kimmy

Niosgirl,

What you're describing is a criminal offense. It's called identity theft and is currently a "hot topic". Therefore, it's becoming very commonplace to prosecute offenders. If there's no love lost, see if you can file charges against her....or at least get an investigation started.

OB1

O Believe me OB1 (giggle - sounds like I'm talking to Obi Wan Kenobe), if she's behind this and we get dragged into it - HOLY COW! We've been through too much to let her get away with this one. I'm sick and tired of her skating the law because her exbf is rich (who also was a MM she got pg by). Even tho she married someone else, he's still fronting her money all the damn time....UG! She is just icky to the core. The funny (not funny, haha, but funny, ewwww) thing is that she wants SO BAD to live the good life - great house (beautiful house), nice cars, nice things, but she still does stuff to jeopardize it. Idiot.

I might just get to be a fly in the wall when the [censored] hits the fan for her. Funny, I always thought since we cut her out of our lives that I'd miss it. (snort)

- Kimmy

Kimmy -

Saying a prayer 4 U!

There's always at least 1 in-law U'd like 2 shoot right! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

Hi Kimmy,

Sorry about your frustration. Your husband being a cop and all should help you fight her. Good Luck!!

Nio,

Wow, good luck and I thought my FIL was a pain in the you know what.

Nios,

Is there anything new on this front? Just curious <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

Tigger

LOL

ROTFLMAO

"Get out of hell free card!"

Hee he..... I liked that Kimmy

Tigger - so sorry I didn't respond - didn't catch the post.

Dh spoke to the attorney again and the attorney said that dh's names and numbers are no longer associated with the company but were at one time(?). SO, he's not liable, but we're still fuming at sil's audacity. Biotch! (doh! did I write that out loud?)

Robel,

I know...it is funny...maybe she thinks since she can charm human beings so well, she can pull one over on God, too? I dunno. It's not for me to decide....(sniff)

- Kimmy