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H told me that OW called him earlier today. She would like for them to talk on Tuesday but according to H did not say what about.
H's atty called him last week, while he was out of town. Don't know if his atty. spoke to hers. H's atty. is an idiot. He sent OW a letter but instead of addressing it Ms. OW, he addressed it to Ms. with her atty's. name. He also spelled OC's last name wrong.
I wonder if her atty. said something to her and that's what she wants to talk about. I am also wondering if she is going to ask for more money? I just can't figure out why she wants to wait till tomorrow.
She is going out of town for a week, leaving this Friday. YIPPIE
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I guess we will have to wait and see in suspense--hope it goes well.
As I said in my update--my H is going to try to get OW to release his parental rights or fight her every step of the way if she doesn't--he could turn her into CSD and make it so she couldn't live where she currently is and I think he may be able to get her deemed unfit.
But my whole problem isn't OW--it is just H deciding to stay or not and OW doesn't play a role in that except the whole situation as put added stress on our marriage that we didn't need.
I'm praying for you.
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Is it wrong of me to hope she falls off the face of the earth on her trip? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> Okay. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> Then I sincerely hope she meets the love of her life on her trip and they runaway and get married and you never hear from them again! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
Is she phoning or talking person to person?
And your attn. is a pos (piece of [censored]). Where'd he dig that one up? The five and dime? I've gotten better legal advice from my 8 year old...
I love ya hon. If you do decide to stick with it, I ASSURE you it gets easier.
- Kimmy
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Luv Praying that all goes well & in your favor, maybe OW has found the love of her life & will move on & stay out of your M. Wishful thinking I know. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> Stay strong.
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Wow ladies, I never thought about that. Maybe she fell in love with someone. OMG, that would make my day. One little thought that crossed my mind is her atty. told her that she will have to DNA and she is going to tell H it might not be his. I know that is having HIGH hopes. I probably have a better chance that she fell in love with someone else or fell off the face of the earth. I still don't understand why she is waiting till Tuesday. Also, H went over last night to see OC, so why not mention something then? Yes Nio, it will be a face to face. Why would you ask such a silly question? Like H would do anything to make me feel better about it. I am sure it will be a few hours too. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> One little thought that crossed my mind is her atty. told her that she will have to DNA and she is going to tell H it might not be his. I know that is having HIGH hopes. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">To quote an old Yiddish saying: From your lips to God's ears. Wouldn't that be a mackrel upside his head??? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> - Kimmy
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Wouldn't that be great--I think that I would be happy with that eve if we went our own ways--just makes things less complicated--LUV I'm thinking of you and saying a little prayer for you.
Anxious to hear your update after the meeting.
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Hi Luv,
So sorry you have to go through this. I wonder the same thing. If he is going to see OC, why can't she talk then. Your husband is so much like mine I feel for you. They always seem to do what makes OW's life easy, not ours.
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Nio, I hope God's ears are working well and hearing everything we are saying. I think I would be ok if she just told H that even if it turned out to be his. Just the mere possibility that it might not be his would be fine with me. But of course, not being his would be the best. H said he is "sure the talk will take longer than 2 hurs." I already knew that. Yippie for me. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Embarrassed]" src="images/icons/blush.gif" /> I will try to scrap a bit to keep my mind off of everything. I wish my computer at home was working then I could get on and chat with you all. You guys are a saving grace. His stupid atty. never returned his call yesterday or at least that is what H said.
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