This morning I had to use my husband's computer because my monitor isn't working. It must be gremlins, because it was working just fine yesterday.

Out of curiosity or stupidity, I launched Yahoo Messenger and clicked on the OW's profile.

*cringing while waiting for all of you to smack me*

She had just updated it on 8/9/04 and in the latest news section, she had written that "in 4 weeks she was going to another state because her doctor needed to perform a c-section for health reasons."

Of course, I lost my breath, my hands started shaking and I kind of panicked. I called my husband at work, something I rarely do, especially for a reason such as this. I'm sorry, I needed someone to talk to, if you know what I mean? Maybe that's why I'm posting this now.

Looking at her statement that I had re-typed into this post, a few things come to mind.

1. She knows that my husband probably still has her on his contact list and looks at it occasionally. This is her way of rattling his cage. No, he does not contact her, he's hoping she contacts him so he can call the police.

2. Since her husband still lives with her (she claimed that he'd kill her if he found out she was pregnant), it would be obvious to him by now, that she's pregnant or not (supposedly she's 7 months). Then why go to another state to have a c-section? It's not a secret anymore, is it? I saw right through this one, such a blatent lie.

It's obvious that I'm still messed up in the head and need counselling. I allow this "woman" to take mental jabs at me while she sits back and smiles. I was just fine the other day, I convinced myself that I wasn't going to let her bother me anymore with this "pregnancy scam", and look at me this morning. I was shaking, but now I've calmed down. I guess by reading her statement a couple of times, I saw it for what it was....a sick, twisted method of manipulation.

I'm going to call her previous victim's wife and see what she thinks about this latest revelation. She's more familiar on what makes this "woman" tick.

Ok, I'm fine now, I think?

First BREATHE!!! She's a lying kooze and you know it! It's been proven...and now you have more proof.

Second - THERE IS NO WAY THE DOCS ARE GONNA C-SEC HER A MONTH EARLY. If you say she's 7 mos pg, and she's going in in 4 weeks for the cs, the math ain't adding up. Those docs want that kiddoe (if there is one - which I'm doubting) as close to that 2 week before the due date delivery as possible (meaning delivered at 38 weeks). I've NEVER (and believe me, I have lots of mommy friends) but I've NEVER heard of a doc willing c-sec someone before that 2 week window UNLESS the mum is alread in labor and they can't stop it AND the mum and baby's lives are in danger.

And hello? When is she going out of state? What she travels to OBGYN appt. (monthly, then bi-monthly, then weekly) OUT OF STATE EVERY TIME???? Big ole red flags on the play. Right now I'd be more concerned that she is going to kidnap some poor woman's newborn at this point....

She's one scary kooze!

Hugs!
- Kimmy

I just finished talking to my husband about this. He's not too concerned, but we will take action, in one way or another. No, nothing illegal.

Niosgirl....it's odd that you should mention her kidnapping another woman's baby. Check out what she to her previous victim.... Her stepmother and her stole a videotape of another woman's ultrasound from a hospital, put a new label on it, and sent it to the man, trying to convince him that it was his baby that was on the video!!!! No...I'm not joking, either. I guess she wasn't pregnant at the time, but got pregnant later, which turned out to be his baby. She was just "jumping the gun", per se.

This isn't a typical OW that we're dealing with. She obviously has mental issues. By having her held at bay with a restraining order, I believe this latest attempt is her way of throwing a temper tantrum, nothing more.

I'm w/ kimmy. She is such a case that she might just try that. I hope her ragged butt gets caught too! Talk about fatal attractions. Man girl you have a basket case. I would stay as far away from her as you can!
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I just finished talking to the previous victim's wife on the phone. She told me that she had seen the OW a few days ago, driving through a parking lot. Of course, she couldn't see if she looked pregnant, but she did say that the OW did appear to have gained alot of weight, perhaps 20 to 30 pounds.

Apparently, she has gained weight on purpose before, so I think she's doing this to appear pregnant, just in case we try to find out.

My husband (as far as we know) is the only person on her contact list related to this Yahoo profile that she's so recently updated. So, this "update" was meant for him to see it. She wants him to respond to her, and I believe she's quite livid with the fact that he won't give her the time of day.

We'll just let her continue to wonder if he's seen it or not. Let her stew about it, she's not worth it.

I wonder how I'll feel about this tomorrow?

Thanks for putting up with me and my insanity!!

******edited by JustUss****

Here's a link to her profile in case anyone wants a good laugh. I have no doubt that it was meant for me. I probably wouldn't have seen it for awhile on my own since I've tried my hardest to evict this person from our lives. Unfortunatly, this doesnt consitiute contact with me so I cant have her arrested, which I wouldn't hesitate to do.

As far as I'm concerned, she already belongs in prison (or committed to a mental institution). If she kidnaps someone's infant she WILL get caught. I can only see her doing that in an attempt to try and prove to me that she had my baby. She has an undying need to prove that she is smarter than anyone else and that she can screw with our lives any time she wants. Since she obviously does not know when to quit, it will be her undoing and I'll be looking for front row seats at her trial.

My wife (Arabesque) may have gotton initially upset over this profile thing, but the OW doesn't know it and she isn't going to. Information is power and I refuse to give her (or any other person) that kind of power over me EVER AGAIN!! OW does not know that I am aware of her entire history, including her previous pregnancy scares, and she never will. I want her to keep guessing while we continue in our recovery and try to get on with our lives. Right now, she is merely taking stabs in the dark.

On a much brighter note, Arabesque and I have tickets to see Michael W. Smith tonight. Good timing since we needs God's help drowning thoughts of this woman out of our heads. I'm sure we're gonna have a wonderful time and forget all about this nut case.

<small>[ August 13, 2004, 07:10 AM: Message edited by: Justuss ]</small>

Yea Kin and Are! I hope you have a fantabolous time!

OTS: I think you were edited - wanna send me that link ots: niosgirl@yahoo.com.

- Kimmy

Just b careful. I once was in your shoes and now I am raising my XWs child from her A. She has no contact w/us though. My XW told the other guy about the baby and he denied it but once he was born the court made him pay for everything. So please b careful.