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Hello ladies,
Today I am the most scared that I have ever been. I really feel bad about even having to do this. We are going to court this afternoon for a hearing about the portection order. H has a chance to dispute it. I am nervous about even facing him. I have not seen him in two weeks since I changed the locks to the house. I love this man, and part of me does not want to do this to him.
He gets out of control when he gets angry he has never hit me but i was afraid that he was going to break in on us that day when he was kicking the door in. So I guess I have to do this for me and my kids. Plus I do not want him coming over to the house unannounced or when he wants to. the harrassment has to stop. the funny thing is he does not think he has done anything wrong here.
He still believes that this is my fault. I am starving for money to take care of his family meanwhile I bet OW is not wanting for anything over there for her kids.
What about US what do we get NOTHING. If I don't allow him to do what he wants then I guess the alternative is this NOTHING. But in making me suffer so to speak you hurt the kids as well. So none of us mean a thing I guess.
I am shaking and wish that I was not even in this situation. I am SCARED of having to do this. He could have just come home and loved his family, that's all we asked of him. Why ME? Why ME?
Why is this the hardest thing I have ever had to do? I am so sad about it and I want my kids to see him - I want to see him. I know that I am going through withdrawal and it is tough ladies even after all he has done it is tough for me.
I LOVE HIM - What can I say.
JT
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It is okay to love him--I know you do baby.
Stay strong--I think you have to do this no matter what even if in the future things were work--I think that this is essential because of how your H is behaving.
Keep us filled in and let us know after court. Was in chat room at about 9:30 you time but only got to visit with Kris--we were the only two.
Keep hugs updated
HUGS and my thoughts will be with you today.
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Don't know what to say.youdo what you want to do & that's it.
I hope it works out for you.
Stay strong.
Gotta catch up on your thread to find out what's goind on w/ the D? I guess. Shouldn't that hearing be soon then you get yoru CS & alimony so you don't have to be so financially strapped?
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