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Hi,
In case you all did not read my last post, husband called me from the hospital. OW named the baby Brianna Nichole XXXXXX. She gave baby her last name. Can you beleive it? Husband did not sign anything. I wish I could be a fly on the wall in that hospital room. I hope OW is cooperative in letting me see the baby. I told husband I wish I could see the baby. He said I would. I wonder how long I will have to wait. The thing that bothers me though is the fact that she had the baby at a hospital that is an hour away from us and she lived three hours away. I may have to play detective again. I wonder if she moved back closer to us. I wonder if I can figure that one out. i doubt husband would tell me because he knows I would be angry if she moved back.
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Genia,
That is good news. I wouldn't push wanting to see OC right now, just wait and see how your H handles things. He gets 2 points today for not signing anything. Just try to stay cool, and let him bring up the situation...but do play detective on the down low...u need to know what is going on. Just play it cool right now...yeah, I know easier said than done...but u can do it!!!!
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Hi Gofigure,
Things were not what they seemed. On the way home from work I just asked husband why OW traveled a couple hours to get to hospital. He said she went to the hospital in her town three hours away. So I asked why he named the hospital this morning that was near us. He acted like I could not remember. Oh Well. At least I like that idea better. But then when I came home I realized he had took some of my money to finance the trip. I was hot and jumped down his throat about it when he came in. The last thing I want to do is finance his trip to OW. Anyhow he gave me part of it back. Then he gets all huffy with me.
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Genia,
Glad to hear he did not sign anything but it still seems that there may be some secrets floating around. I would check things out. Is she still in the hospital? If so, call the one you think she is at to get her room number, say you want to send her flowers. I called the hosp. to see if OW was in labor. Be a dective. I think you heard right and your H is covering up. Making you think you heard wrong is a thing those men do, called crazy making.
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Hi Luv,
Thanks for the tip. My husband is doing a great job at crazy making. Like I did not hear him say the name of the hospital. Like I can't count my money. Like he did not take as much as he said. I had $100.00. He took $25.00 but said he took $15.00. He gave me $10.00 back. Urggh. I will call the hospital. Hope it's not too late.
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