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#834768 09/18/04 12:17 AM
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Has anyone heard from her. I know she is off work but maybe she has talked to someone. How are you doing Kim?
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#834769 09/18/04 12:56 AM
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No, I have not heard from her. I was wondering what was going on with her. I hope that everything is ok.

#834770 09/17/04 02:57 PM
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Hey ladies--just heard from Kimmy--she e-mailed be and said she had taken yesterday and today off from work--her boss knows about Nio drama and is great to her with it and she doens't have computer at home I don't think because she said she was at the library checking her e-mail.

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Here I am. Here's the update so far:

Update

D'ya know how much I , LOATHE, and DETEST loggin in at the library? People walk by, and you just know they're reading what you're writing....UG!

#834772 09/17/04 03:30 PM
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Kimmy,

Good to hear from u! Keep praying.

Praying for u & Nio.

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Kimmy}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

#834773 09/21/04 12:56 AM
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Update

Missing ya'll. You don't know how much I wish I had each and every one of your phone #s yesterday!

#834774 09/20/04 01:14 PM
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Kimmy,
If you want mine, it's yours to use anytime you need it. I don't have the kids this week so the background noise will be nill.

#834775 09/20/04 01:21 PM
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Kimmy (((Hugs to you ))))) Girl you have got your hands full! Is he afraid of being on the meds and working? Will he get in trouble for taking them? You are a very strong person. How are your meds doing?
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#834776 09/20/04 01:48 PM
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Dear Nio, just read your update. My heart and prayers go out to you. I hope God answers your prayers and you stay strong. You have so much to deal with right now. I wish I could be there for you.

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BIG GIANT HUGS KIMMY

NIO--needs to pull his head out--I think that it is nearly too lost to do though. E-mailed you my phone number--call anytime.

Praying for NIO--he needs it.

#834778 09/20/04 02:49 PM
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Hi Kimmy,

I am sorry for what you are going through. I am feeling pretty hopeless too if you read my post. If I don't get some hope I know I am gonna be depressed. I hope it gets better for you. I think your darling husband is hitting bottom. I think he is trying to manipulate her to get rid of her boyfriend by threatning to take her kids away. Why didn't he do it when he was with you?

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Kimmy,

I will email u my phone # also. So sorry that Nio is so lost still, doesn't he realize that he may lose u, if he keeps this up? Guess not the fog is too thick for him right now.

I am praying that the enemy gets out of his head, & God will take control of his heart, mind & soul, my goodness the man has it all, & it is not enough for him?

Big hugs to you girl, stay strong, we are here for you. {{{{{{{{{{{{Kimmy}}}}}}}}}}}}

#834780 09/23/04 01:10 PM
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Update kimmy! How r u doing?
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#834781 09/23/04 03:26 PM
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Not good, Grasshoppers.

Update

BBG - And your phone #, please? Luv, you too (I dunno if I had it and lost it - I'm forever writing things down then tossing the bits of paper, but I PROMISE I have my daytimer today) - I am beginning a support collection and you may be called upon at any time....

niosgirl@yahoo.com

#834782 09/23/04 08:49 PM
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Kimmy,

A prayer for you, your grandma, Nio & all your children.

My grandma (89 yrs. old) is in the hosptial, beginning stages of alzheimers (sp). We hate the thought of the circle being broken but it is God's plan for all of us one day to go home to be with him.

I sent u my phone # via email.

Call me - God is holding u Kimmy never forget that, let go & feel his love surrounding you.

Love you,

#834783 09/27/04 03:21 PM
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Just my update:

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Also, Spoke to Sunny this morning....she is as kick a$$ed irl as in the web world. Said it was gonna rain there at the cabin....I can still picture the sparkly green AR gets after a nice rain. Hope you had your bicycle ride!

#834784 09/27/04 03:40 PM
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I read your update, I'm so sorry to hear he's still being an @$$. I bet it did feel good to let her know what you think of her. If I remember correctly, Nio doesn't have much faith in her parenting abilities either...

#834785 09/27/04 03:48 PM
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Nah, that's one of the reasons he's told me in the past that he wants to go to her...b/c he's afraid of how the kid'll turn out.

Oh, and I MEANT to say SATURDAY I spoke to Sunny. My brains a little mushy today....

#834786 09/27/04 04:21 PM
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Kimmy, I'm sorry about your weekend. Great to talk to you sat! I'm glad you are doing the "Kimmy Plan" no one and on one can tell you where Nio's heart or your heart is. I am here to support, hug and use the 2x4 (if and when neded)! Your story was sad. I too hate to see someone who knows in their heart they are going NO WHERE and wont get up and do something. I too was like that at first, w/ all the shock of things, ya know, but then I found the "Sunny's Plan! " Reguardless on what outcome there is for my M. I'm praying and listening to what I feel God is telling me and My god would not tell anyone to stay and be abused by another person. We are from the rib of a man, but in NO WAY does that mean I belong to him in the way he can abuse and continue to abuse me. I AM SOMEBODY GREAT! So are you Kim! So are each and everyone here. ((((Hugs)))) And I hope you g-ma is better.
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#834787 09/27/04 04:39 PM
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Hey,

I know that you are in pain and I don't blame you.(I'd feel the same way) I am sorry however that you have to go through this agony. I wish you the best and and a happy day today. I wish sunshine and blue skies for you today and always. I miss your humor, but understand the pain that you are feeling.

Kimmy, you have ben so great to me every since you first came to MB, I admire you and your spirit and am greatful for you touching my life as you have. I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR PAIN!

Keep your head up and continue to pray for your family and what you want oout of your marriage. One thing that I have learned from my pastor is to pray in SPECIFICS. ASK AND YOU SHALL RECEIVE- it may not be in our time but in GOD's time it will come to pass.

Much Love to you,

JT

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