I just want to send a shout out to my baby (H) here.. something really nice. I need to tell you how sweet my H is!

About a month ago we had an overdue BLOWUP.. ya know.. the one where I clock him in the mouth for beeing an a**!! ...Just kidding.... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
It led to a big make up night of talking, crying and other stuff..and THEN for the past while now he has been my baby again. So sweet... hugging me and calling me all day.. picking me up from work and telling me EVERY single day that I look nice,pretty,sexy. Just being helpful and considerate and giving back rubs... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

And TO THINK JUST 6 MONTHS AGO my H was in a fog that took me through a WORLD of pain. He even had a 2nd quick OW...!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> But even thru all the dark months of his NASTY SELFISH UGLY behavior- I still ALWAYS knew SOME HOW that he did love me so so much, but we were just so mad at one another. He STILL een when seperated wanted to see me and talk to me all the time. But our anger persisted. I never EVER thought our M could survive this. NEVER. But it has survived and we ARE changing our lives, for real and for the better.

Now he's out of the FOG! wooo hoooooo and I'm getting the best of him again. And its been since MOthers day!! Like an AA program, lol!! Kids are happy, we are having fun as a family... we all hang out (me, H and our 14yr and 11yr old boys) we laugh again !!! And its not forced, its natural. Things are getting really secure and nice again.

H and I went to a club this past weekend and my friends were irritated w/me cause they said I was "ignoring" them..(42 year old women..lol) BECAUSE - me and my HUNKY H were kissing and dancing like we did when we met. We had such a much needed night to dress nice and dance our arses off... !!

There is hope ladies-- for SOME of these "HUSBANDS GONE WILD" as I refer to them. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

Keep hope alive lol

<small>[ October 13, 2004, 11:37 PM: Message edited by: giovanna123 ]</small>

This is an awesome post, Giovanna!!!! I'm glad that you and your H are back on the road to happiness! Keep depositing into that love bank, and meeting his needs! It gets easier everyday to do both! Congrats on upsetting your friends, and what a way to do it, huh????

Tigger

Thank you Tigger!!

Seems sometimes I dont even want to post anything like this, I almost feel guilty when I know others here are having such a hard time. I know what its like to want for better days but to live with the pain of have a H who is just not cooperating. Boy do I.

I guess I just feel I need to relay to some that there IS hope.. that love CAN creep back in there and you CAN be "normal" again!! I am barely a success story yet, but I do think its important for us to share the good things also.

We have a looong way to go, but I never, ever thought we could achieve even as much as we have so far!

Thanks,

G123, we need to hear some success stories eventhough we are experiencing pain ourselves. If we did not hear them we would have no hope of ever rebuilding our own M. It would be a dark lonely day or better yet like the blind leading the blind if no one ever emerged from the darkness. So go ahead and glote honey! You deserve it!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

Just always remember to encourage me often, I need it!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Living yet another day just thankful to be alive and well!! loving my babies!!

JT <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

YES~

Gio-we need here about the success as JT says and I'm so glad to here what you said

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> But even thru all the dark months of his NASTY SELFISH UGLY behavior- I still ALWAYS knew SOME HOW that he did love me so so much, but we were just so mad at one another. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">That is exactly where I'm at with my H but we are but so mad at one another--me because he came home and promised alot and left again and him at me because we have argued for 9 months about whether or not to be done or not. HE says he doesn't love me but you know what I know he does and he just doesn't like me right now and alot of that comes from his guilt I think also.

Good post!

Thought I had better check in and say HI--since you thought we had all fell off the earth--I have been psoting some up dates on other site.

U go Gio123!!! Keep posting the Good Stuff!!! We need to hear ALL about the GOOD STUFF!!!

ALot of times the way looks really dark and gloomy with no hope in sight...so we need to know that it is possible and things can work out...and most importantly that our H's do come to there senses...lol.

We need to keep Hoping & Praying for the best!!!

Take care!

G123,

I am so so happy for you, praise God! Lord knows we need some good news on this board! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

So much of the news here is depressing & we need to hear that some M's do not only survive but thrive!!!!!

Keep loving that man & letting him love u & if your "friends" don't like it too bad, true friends rejoice when you rejoice! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Thank you GoFigure, Albany, Neicy, J2.... I am glad you are not a "haters" like my girlfriends were Friday night! haaa!!!! Really they are great gals, but they just couldn't stand to have me out of their sight and having such a great time without them! LOL!!!!