I was reading today and found this. Please read it. As far as this being a Marriage building concept: to me to change my soul, my feelings, my anger and hatred, and heart was to help my M survive. I have to admit, when I came here (or when God put me here) I was looking for support and a shoulder to cry my oh poor me's on. I found people here wanted to help, and some who wanted to help me hurt somemore. I can say that our lives and what we are living is for a reason and what we learn and how we use it in the future will make all the difference in the people we will become. I was told saturday, our first visit w/ the A (oc) in our home and my H g-father came in and saw him, the first thing he told me was that I was one heck of a woman. I looked at him and smiled and told him God makes me that way, he expects nothing less from me! I'm not here to pat myself on the back, but to help. I found my peace in my bible, my god and nothing else. I am not perfect and yes still have good and bad days. But learning the meaning of what you are going though, may help your M and your family, it did mine. So with all that said here is the site and I hope it helps someone here strugling w/ your situation.
www.bible.org/page.asp?page_id=2323 Thanks
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Delighted in having a Loving God
Delighted in having a Forgiving God
Delighted in the road he has taken me down-however bumpy.
Delighted in the peace he gives me EVERYDAY
