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I have just been reading the argument that has taken over the board it seems aboout who should and should not be here. I visited tow to see what the fuss was about. Im appalled at what I found. Women talking about how they loved the mm and how they would just wait for the man to leave his W. It hurt my heart to the core and Im new to this whole thing. I couldn't understand how anyone of any moral character could justify waiting to destroy a family just to satisfy themselves. I wanted to scream on tow that what man would not tell you that he was unhappy in his home that is the reason for the affair? What mm would continue an affair and still tell the ow he is so happy and loves his wife, wouldn't the ow run as fast as she could? I think what everyone is forgetting is that hearts have been broken and that everyone needs a place to vent no matter how right or wrong, and a place to learn to rebuild the relationship that has been tortured. If ow wants to speak on mb forum and is doing so with the realization that marriages have been hurt by ow's affair with mm, and that they are trying to find peace and understanding in their wrong doing then let them. But if ow is only here to pick fun at w pain then one should not be here. I feel that its ok to try and understand both sides of the story, because like in my situation my husband played a role in hurting my heart. It did take two. Sometimes the ow get caught up in the fairytale that they are somehow different than the w. The I can love him better than she can sydrome. And its sad because what a man can do to one woman he will do to another. I really wish you guys would really continue to help the newcomers and tell your stories and how you overcame the obstacle. This bickering back and forth is not helpful at all. just a sincere thought. Wish everyone well
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Will you please tell me how to get to that board I want to read some of the stuff for myself. I have heard about it constantly but don't know where it is or maybe not looking hard enough.
Tell me? Please!
JT
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JT2 general is free for all. No holds back. Not all the boards on TOw are that open and free for all.
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