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SORRY FOR WHAT I WROTE BUT I JUST GOT ANGRY BECAUSE I WOULDN'T WANT TO WISH ON ANY ONE TO LOSE THEIR KIDS BECAUSE EVERYBODY MAKES MISTAKES AND I THINK ITS JUST KINDA SAD!!!!! <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />
(I'VE BEEN THERE AND I WOULDN'T WANT IT AGAIN)SO AGAIN I AM SORRY FOR THE WAY I PUT THAT
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Did I miss a bunch tonight or what??
Drawstring,
If your rant was on what I posted about Xow, you have no idea what has gone on in this womans home unless you are one of her friends. It's her own fault she lost her kids, it's her own fault her kids have been ripped from home to home. And then to sit there and watch her laugh when her son is being ripped from his fathers home cause she doesn't want the father to have anything to do with the boy is just sick. She would rather have her son in foster care.
<small>[ October 27, 2004, 09:34 PM: Message edited by: Crazymum ]</small>
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Drawstring...thank you for the apology. Please know that while you may be hurting...lashing out and hurting folks who are already hurting too won't really make you feel better. You have a strong support board....this board is probably not a very good place for where you are right now.
Cheerful...No matter how true those words might be, or how sincere you might be in saying them...they cut like a knife through the ladies of this board. Please examine your motive for being here and what purpose you might have for sharing this. Maybe you believe that speaking the "truth" is a worthy enough cause...but this board is less interested in your truth, than they are in the truth that marriages survive this....everyday. Where is this man who "wanted" this child?
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I only replied because there were questions in reference to how the OW would feel.
I explained how I feel.
Was this a rhetorical question?
I'm not here to pour salt in wounds. I have a whole bottle of Morton' available, but I'm leaving it the cupboard.
I'm simply answering questions.
P.S. JustUss- My appologies; I simply wanted to point out that this is "Non-MB Principles" thread.
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Crazymum, sorry to threadjack but you still have oc right???? I did misunderstand your post right?
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No unfortunatly i don't know who ExOW is, and probably good thing. But I just don't think it is right to exploiting her business w/out her permission for everyone to read. Exspecially for those who may know this woman. As for before I am truely sorry i have been reading these for about a yr. & have following your story. It is a shame for all of this to have happened. I have been in your situation. H & I worked out our problems & the Last 7yrs have been great. GOOD LUCK I'll keep in touch <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> (but she had made a mistakes everybody is allow some mistakes kids don't come with manuals you just do the best you can) <small>[ October 27, 2004, 11:14 PM: Message edited by: DRAWSTRING ]</small>
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Drawstring I'm lost......what are you talking about? Do you have an oc that your talking about? Did you loose some kids? Are you the bw? I'm really lost and maybe it's because I may have missed a few posts.
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My H has OC & she was so desperate to break us apart she called Cps on us & when they did come to my home my daughter didn't have a mark on her. It was a bull crap story &her plan didn't work. So yes i've been there. But i would really be upset if she was to tell all of you or someone else for that matter. It should have been me, or this ExOW to tell the story. I'm sorry if i came off the 1st time as a B*tch but i know first hand how it feels & your Comments hit home to as how i would feel if i were. i will keep touch <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />
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Draw I'm sorry! They did not take her right? THat is just childish behavior and it defentently is not something to be proud of doing. Nor is it funny one bit. This is something that can ruin someone and terrify a child. I know CPS has it's purpose to help kids, but some adults use it to "payback" and it's not fair. I'm sorry this happened to you. Take care of yourself and your family. {{{{{{ }}}}}}}I actually had a girlfriend who filed a false report on her x husband and it ruined his career and life. She was so bitter and mad at him. Later he was able to prove his innocence but the interm was not good. Needless to say her and I are no longer friends. I really never liked her x husband but that I knew he never did. It was just wrong.
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No, we no longer have OC. Xow showed up to court with all my post from MB, her lawyer highlighted every thing they deemed negative. They pulled OC from our home saying he is in danger here. She was laughing so hard when her lawyer told her the news she was crying. They seem to think that he is in danger here due to the fact that he is an Oc and I the Bw might harm him.
Drawstring,
I'm not airing her dirty laundry, I have given squat for details. Xow losing her children is her OWN fault. Yes, people make mistakes, yes people can become overwhelmed with children (I have 5) but some of the things she did to those kids is uncalled for no matter what. She was givin a chance by Cps to clean up her act, instead she was caught red handed by them screwing up. Then when she uses her son, who has already suffered enough, to hurt H that is pretty bad.
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> No, we no longer have OC. Xow showed up to court with all my post from MB, her lawyer highlighted every thing they deemed negative. They pulled OC from our home saying he is in danger here. She was laughing so hard when her lawyer told her the news she was crying. They seem to think that he is in danger here due to the fact that he is an Oc and I the Bw might harm him.
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">This is a really good data-point for all of you. Please be really careful about how many details you reveal and about preserving your anonimity. Also remember to write nothing here that is either recognizable or could be used against you in court. Assume that ANYONE could be reading your posts because they can be!
blessings....and be careful!
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Crazymum I am sooooooooo sorry!!!! OMG. That poor little boy has been through enough. Crazy I'm saying this not YOU. I can't believe that with what that child (all her kids for that matter) have gone through that something like this could happen. You truely loved that little boy and regardless of the circumstances you were giving him his time with his mom as well. I truely wish there was something I could do for you. I mean that. I am just so sorry.
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Please be really careful about how many details you reveal and about preserving your anonimity. Also remember to write nothing here that is either recognizable or could be used against you in court. Assume that ANYONE could be reading your posts because they can be! </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Star People also have to be careful just on general conversations. You never know when a little comment could be takin out of context. Just from my post on this board that Xow had given the Lawyers and Cps, they seem to think I will harm Oc <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> and that I regret having my last child <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> I can't believe that with what that child (all her kids for that matter) have gone through that something like this could happen. You truely loved that little boy and regardless of the circumstances you were giving him his time with his mom as well </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">NTMO I know this. All those kids have been through hell with the mother, now to have a rotten case worker. If this case worker did her job correctly, the kids wouldn't have been pulled and placed 3-4 different times in the past 6 weeks. And as for Oc, I was doing the best I could to make sure he knew his mother, step-dad and grandparents loved him no matter what. I had pics of his entire family hung by his bed. I was the one asking Cps if it was ok for him to have contact with the grandparents before they were granted supervised visits, I asked if Oc could call his mother on her birthday. All in all right now Oc is doing good, he is placed with his two younger siblings. So that is all that matter right now. As for Xow wanting to take things out on H and I. To bad she doesn't realize the ones she is truly hurting are the children involved. She is not only screwing up her children (which is already done and proven) she is affecting my children with her games also. I will NOT allow that to happen anymore.
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Crazy I just feel so bad for those children. I feel bad for your family too, but I just can't imagine having a child under any circumstances going thorugh this. It's just so unfair. My thoughts are with those kids and I wish there was something I could do to help, but I have no clue. I'm just sorry this has happened. How is husband taking all this?
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Well i don't if everybody esle sees this or not but CRAZY in alot of these post that you have on here you contridict yourself...... like the grandparent ok let me put it this way i going to put it in my words instead of yours that they're mean in lame terms <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Well i don't if everybody esle sees this or not but CRAZY in alot of these post that you have on here you contridict yourself...... like the grandparent ok let me put it this way i going to put it in my words instead of yours that they're mean in lame terms </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">You've lost me??
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no maybe she found you? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> Sunny D
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CM-- I am so shocked- how ever did she find out about this site, etc? It seems to me that your good care and concern for OC was obvious???? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> I sure thought you were doing a heck of a job considering all the drama and pain surrounding the OC?? Again, I am shocked. And I am so sorry that you were voilated this way, and made to look bad when you are not. (hugs) How is your H holding up w/all of this?
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You say this ......... </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> CPS tried to use stuff against H that happened 15, 11 and 5 yrs ago. If this was happening even 5 yrs ago, I wouldn't be willing to work with H to have Oc in the home. We have come ALONG way. I have a councelor that comes into the house on a weekly basis, she had a long talk with Cps on what things are like in our house. Cps was believing what Xow was saying about H and I ( why I don't know with her history) So my councelor told her how much better things are, vouched for George and I as parents and what our household is like. I even told Cps they could interview our neighbors. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">and then you say this </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> I know this. All those kids have been through hell with the mother, now to have a rotten case worker. If this case worker did her job correctly, the kids wouldn't have been pulled and placed 3-4 different times in the past 6 weeks.</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">maybe your not or you are contridict yourself i guess i should the post over but one minute your saying this and it something different. i don't think case worker could be that bad at their job i'm just trying to understand <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />
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drawstring, What is your concern about Crazymum and her situation? Are you involved in some way? Perhaps as the xow, a grandparent or a friend of theirs? I don't quite understand... a total of 6 posts ,,all either criticising or questioning crazymum. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />
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