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The OW called to tell my H that the babies surgery was not today (29th) and for him not to worry because he didn't care anyhow and not to come. Then rattled off in Spanish?? and hung up
This was last Thursday. No calls , no contact. My H said if she wants to sabotage things then fine. He and God knows that he was going to try to do the right thing. So no contact by either.
I guess this should make me happy then right? Still no paternity , I feel like this is just the beginning. My H doesn't seemed to worried about it? what should I think?
Lori
<small>[ October 29, 2004, 10:45 PM: Message edited by: loriharris ]</small>
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Hey Lori. Just remember. No contact has to be done legally too. Get an attorney and draw up the papers. Get your family covered from her coming back YEARS from now and saying you owe me thousands! It is just as important to get papers requarding N/C . Talk to lynn! She will help you maybe get something worked up. Good luck and we are praying for you! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> Sunny D.
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Sunny I need to tell you about this weekend.
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I'm here. You can send me an email or im me! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> Sunny D
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So what does your attorney tell you about her having major medical procedures done on HIS child without his knowledge?
1. If you and he want contact, she can't say/do a thing about it. He has as much right as her to know anything. ESPECIALLY medical. I would hound her butt good with an attorney on this
2. If you are going no contact, let it go. Get child support set up legally and move on.
DON'T LET HER CONTROL A THING. YOU MAKE THE DECISIONS IN YOUR MARRIAGE. PERIOD.
Right now she is trying to guilt you into what she wants by saying that stuff.
This is why laywers are so important. If you are in no contact, she has no reason to call you at all. She is harrassing you. File charges.
If you are in contact with the child, she is witholding vital info and could be in trouble.
I say go after her with the law, no matter what you are chosing. Like a puppy, she needs to be swatted a few times to learn.
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Thanks lynn! I knew you would be popping in soon! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> Sunny D.
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