I just found out some info tonight. I had my suspisions but know there is proof. Xmm and H Xow are working together to keep H son out of our home. They are e-mailing each other!!

What a hoot!!! Who the hell would have thought? Are these two actually that pissed that we moved on with our lives? That we choose our spouses over them?

And because I know they will both read this:

GET OVER IT!!! Move on in your life, better your life.

XOw, why don't you concentrate on bettering yourself to try to get your kids back. Try working on your marriage instead of screwing around all the time. Be gratefull that your son has a father that wants to be with him. Instead of doing what ever you think you can to stop him. All that whining you did about H not doing what you wanted for your son, now he is actually grown up and being a man/father and you want to take the boy from him. Say what you want, tell the lawyers/Cps whatever, in the long run the truth will come out.

As for Xmm, talk about obsessive <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> Getting together with other posters to attack me? Did you think that would bring me down? LOL

CM, You should feel like KT. You have done everything in your power to include this child in your family. Against what people have told you, against what would have been less stressful, against what was "easy". Your life has been turned on ends and you have done EVERYTHING. You should feel proud! You should feel a since of peace that you know you have done what YOU felt was right for your family and the OC. Everything happens for a reason and sometimes though our best efforts, it may not be the way we see it should be. Like the story of Sarrah and Abraham and the maid. But you should hold your head up and continue on with the growth and strengthing of your family! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> You are in my prayers and it always works out the way God planned it too.
(((((CM))))))
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> Sunny D

Thanks Sunny.

We seen Oc yesterday. Yes, supervised visits, but we got to see him. Come to find out that even if Oc was never in our home, we would still have supervised visits due to him being in foster care. So this is nothing against us.

We are working on a POJA. Lots of talking of how to work things out.

Things that have helped me out lately is my faith. It has gotten stronger and reading different scriptures that other posters put out occasionally has helped me. It has also helped me in not actin gout against certian individuals, let them wallow in their misery, I'm moving to have a happier, healthy life. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Sorry I'm not trying to post anything to CM i was just wondering on what does POJA means I'm don't know what intials means or codes means yet sorry <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

DS It stands for Point of Joint Agreement. You can find it here:
POJA
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> Sunny D

Thank you Sunnydale

hugs hugs hugs !!