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My H had affair with my best friend and now she is pregnant with his baby. She is married with 4 other childern and I have triplets that are 2 1/2 years old and my husband can't decide between her or mee. He says he is falling in love with me again. But he says he also has strong feelings for her.Help !!!!!!!!!!!!!! What do I do
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TT, I would like to welcome you to our forum. I so sorry you and your family are going though all of this. Please look at the welcome thread and read some of the material there. The board has been alittle slow the past couple of days but there are someone here most of the time. Please read over the material and let us help you make since of all you are going though. Welcome <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> Sunny D
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Tammy
I am sorry you had to join our ranks! Welcome to our board.
When did this all come about for you? I can't imagine a friend doing this to you. You have my sympathy...
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Tammy Wow....I am so sorry. I could not imagine that as well (best friend). I have twins (almost had triplets we lost early on the pregnancy) and can certaintly understand where your coming from. The weekend is slow and I'm sure you'll be having people coming here this week and giving you words to help you. I'm sorry your going through this.
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If you haven't read the stuff on the main marriage builders site about how infidelity starts and how it should end, read them for sure! Your husband can't have both obviously and he will have to cut off contact with her if he wants to recover his marriage. Do lots of reading and soul searching
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