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Originally posted by JT2:
Neicy,
I couldn't even read your post because I was too shocked to see you on here.
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That's funny- I couldn't read the post because it was too painful to read the "u r 2 kool 4 sk8r gurls aNd ThEiR boi-fReinDs" lingo.


Next thing you know there will abe an A/S/L check.
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First of all this post was to Mom 2 3 boys, if u r 2 illiterate 2 understand what I wrote I am so sorry 4 u. It was in support of HER. If it was truly that painful no one asked u 2 read it.

U r one of the reasons I hardly ever post on this board anymore, I have never understood y u chose 2 come here other than 2 hurt women who r in deep pain, I don't believe I have ever read a positive comment from u since u started posting here.

Again I ask y r u here???? R u married & looking to rebuild your relationship even though u have an OC or your H has one??? No I don't think so - u r a STOW, a bitter scorned one at that looking 2 cause trouble. I do believe there is a board just 4 women like u where u can find much support, this is NOT it.

THIS IS A MARRIAGE BUILDING SITE!

Since u were obviously dumped by your XMM who lied 2 u, so u say, & promised 2 take care of u & his illegitimate child u r obviously very very bitter. U can't hurt his wife anymore, since he wanted NO CONTACT with u or OC, ( I can't imagine y since u r so cheery & all), so u come here & spread all your negative comments, such as changing your last name to XMM's that is just absurd, not 2 mention sick & twisted.

I have followed your posts but chose not 2 respond 2 u since I consider u mentally & emotionally challenged. I truly feel sorry 4 u, I really do & I think your screen name is far from the truth. U need 2 pray so that u can b the best mom 2 your child, grow up, get a life & stop obssessing over a man who was never yours & never will b - baby or not!

Could u read & understand that?????

OMG! You are 2 kewl 4 skewl! Love you BBG/Neicy.

Would that every OW has the composure and compassion/grace that OB1 (and a few others) has...it'd make this road a lot less trecherous....and this board a lot more easy to post on.

- Kimmy

Hey Kimmy,

Thanks! U know I think u r 2 kewl 2!

Bought way 2 much in the $1 store, now back at the grind. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

I sent u an email!

Love u!
"B"

Ya'll (there goes the southern than again) Kill me! Both of you! Love ya!! Kimmy/ BBG always in my prayers!
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> Sunny D

Love you too Sunny.

Neicy - got the email, but had already posted whazzup with me on the boards...

People are icky.

BBG/Neicy,

You are killing me over here!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> I have split my side open reading this post. I am going to start calling you " Tell it like it is B " (in relation to tell it like it is dr. phil as Oprah call him)!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Obviously there are some problems with some poeple's lives ( you know who you are ) that they have to bring their unhappiness to other's. I say it is not welcome here and not needed. We do just fine with our own problems don't need yours and your stupidity to boot!!

Gotta go I'm tired of the BS on this board!! Oh and literally she has just dumped (sh*t) and stepped back into it!!!! (STOW) Smells something awful doesn't it?


JT

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Neicy61:
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Again I ask y r u here???? </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Oh, I don't know. Probably the same reason why FindingMyWayBack hangs out at GloryB. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Wait a minute...let me get this straight! THis woman is an OW! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> I am so sorry, but I DO NOT LIKE OW's...I dont care who they are, what they do, or how they got there...I HATE THEM!!!! Why oh why, do you not only cause problems in a marriage by having an affair with a MM, that would be a MARRIED MAN, but then come HERE to cause more problems...so very sad...very very sad! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

momto3boys:
Before I begin I want to say I'm sorry and don't want to hurt your feelings coming from an XOW w/oc, but really want to say this to. I did NOT see the show (I work at the time it comes on here and don't have t-bo?) but I did go over to his (dr.phill) site and read most of it (not the message board but your segments) and have only heard bits and parts of your story. I do feel however that it was a really brave thing you did going on to that show. I'm not a huge Dr. Phill fan (Ellen comes on at the same time) and watch her if I'm at home over him. I don't know all the advise he gave you and nor do I know how you feel about it. I do feel you went on there to try and salvage your marriage and again it took guts of both you and your husband. You have a good looking family and I really do hope that things work out for your family.

Cheerful,

Since you have the benefit of reading about the lives of the ladies here....why not let them know your name on TOW so that they can return the favor? You refuse to respect the sanctity of this board...but I wonder if you're willing to invite these ladies into your life?

Yeah, maybe it's because I can't stand idiot OW who once they "lose" act like complete morons and do things like change their last name to the OM's without them knowing it.

OH N0, wait a minute-- cheerful doesn't post on TOW- remember? Thats what I was told the day she signed up and made post 1 to me. Instant bitterness. But anyway-- I knew she was from there and now is mentioning others who post there- DUH.

She has never, ever offered any help whatsoever to anyone, period. Much less offer any input or conversation from any other "side" that is insightful or in any effort to "learn"...

It's amazing the things that are said over there once they get dumped. It's all fine and dandy when the wife is getting treated like crap, but OH LORD, look out if they get the raw end of the deal. Suddenly they want to tell the wife, because she deserves to know. They want to sue, take out full page ads, and they whine and cry forever about what a jerk he is and they can't see how the wife doesn't just dump him (which they would just love BTW).

I know I am an exOW, but none of these thoughts crossed my mind. I moved on with my life, doing my best to make it better.

Finding my way back....

If you could not do those things of a "stereotypical" OW....why would you use that to paint everyone on TOW that way?

ent

Where did I say everyone? I said you wouldn't believe the things that get said, but I didn't say by everyone.

Look, I know you love your OW, that's great. You have a big heart.

Never said I loved my OW...OC yes...OW...tends to get on my nerves just like the sanctimonious BS's here.
ent

ent....I find that many of your posts could also be painted as "sanctimonious". Sounds a bit like the pot calling the kettle black LOL. Afterall, you've been able to rise above the "rabble" of other BS here and accept the OC....and the implication is that you are somehow "better" for doing so. You'll refute that, but it comes off that way just the same. I respect that TOW is a support forum for folks on the other side of this issue...and I would discourage our members from invading their sanctuary...as I do TOW members from insensitively posting here. In some ways, it's probably more hurtful not when TOW members post insensitively (afterall, they have their own challenges in this equation)...but the addition of judgemental BSs who look down on them too because their situations don't match theirs....calling them sanctimonious. You might want to take an "empathy check". yikes!

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by entwifejmr:
<strong> Never said I loved my OW...OC yes...OW...tends to get on my nerves just like the sanctimonious BS's here.
ent </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">????

You said (on the other thread) that you are against "OW bashing"

.... and yet, here you are...

doing some BS bashing...

This makes no sense. At least support your remark with logic, or some sort of intelligent debate... but you are lowering yourself to the level of the very thing you say you do not support! Try harder to support your position in a way that does not lower your own standards.

Pep

<small>[ November 22, 2004, 10:57 AM: Message edited by: Pepperband ]</small>

Originally posted by Neicy61:

Again I ask y r u here????
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Oh, I don't know. Probably the same reason why FindingMyWayBack hangs out at GloryB.

Of course once again U didn't answer the question, I didn't ask FindingMyWayBack y she is here & I don't know or care what GloryB is. As I stated b4 u have nothing positive 2 contribute 2 this board - so - - - y r u here?

This is useless & not helping anyone, so I am done with this post, I do have a thought though - for the ladies who r actually here for help & support each other, maybe if we ignore CLO she will go away.....

One can only hope! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Ent,

You are almost the dictionary version of STOW.

Go back to TOW.