Is there some real shortage of single available men out there?

These OW need to have sex with other women's husbands and break up families and marriages!

I had no trouble dating and finding single men before I got married. What is the problem, do all the stupid ugly ignorant OW's need dating advice?

1. Where to meet single men
2. How to meet a nice available single man to date
3. How to lose weight or fix herself up
4. How to be nice so a nice single man would want her.
5. How to use birth control should she decide to have sex with a single boyfriend.
6. How to dress nice to meet nice men.
7. How to take a shower every day.
8. How to be a good honest person
9. How NOT to be skanky.

There should be a class in "Meeting and Dating Single Men", a 12 week course, to teach these ignorant other women the ins and outs of dating single available men.

If they stuck ONLY to dating MEN that were not already married, they might have a chance at becoming married themselves someday!!!

As it stands now, OW who date married men are just ruining themselves and the families and the world around them.

OW ARE DESTROYERS!

I couldn't agree with you more. I'm there right now and i can't believe how much it hurts.

You said it baba2.
It really must be a sickness with these OW, but mark my words one day these OW will move on and find men of their own and even get married. This is when something I like to call " Karma " comes back to bite you in the a**. These OW will then know what it feels like to hope and pray when their H's are out and are angry over an argument or something that no matter how they may b**ch about the W at home that this OW would have a general respect as a women and tell that man that he needs to go work things out with his W or Better yet come see me when you get a D. Now that's being a real women.

Maybe the OW will marry an abuser! Or a man addicted to drugs and alcohol.

It will come back to bite them....true.

We should start an:

"OW DATING SITE"

Where OW can learn to be good decent people (for once) and let go of thier skanky clothing, take baths, teach them how to brush thier teeth, dress nicely, not swear, be polite, use good birth control, care about the world, and meet nice AVAILABLE men to have sex with.

Well the first thing is act like a lady be treated like a lady. Act like a closet whore, well get treated like a closet whore. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> Sunny D

Does OS stand for

OTHER SKANK????

No, that would imply the wife was a skank too....usually not the case.

Here's my take-

I don't think OW is necessarily always a whore. I think they are "easy" to some degree-- but probably because they are lacking self esteem, want attention....lonely--- or they are just plain selfish and cold hearted and want what they want- regardless of who they hurt.

You can say its love, it wasn't planned... its destiny its WHATEVER these women want to believe it is... but the bottom line is--- real woman with any sense of security, with any CLASS, beauty, etc.. would NEVER, EVER screw with a married man, PERIOD. PERIOD. PERIOD.

I have met LOTS of men who were married and VERY handsome and VERY "AVAILABLE" to me... and ya know... at times it would have been REAL FUN to take one of those offers- especially the RICH AND HANDSOME ones who want to take you on trips and buy you things (LOL)...

But I NEVER EVER WOULD because *I* love me, I love human beings, because I know that it is evil and ugly to accept a man's ugly offer as this.... I love my body and I would NEVER, EVER be a dirty little secret-- or Lord forbid subject a child to being the extension of that dirty little secret.

LAIDES, there is just NO WAIVERING on the fact that BEAUTIFUL women (inside and out) WILL NOT subject themselves to being second best-- will not ALLOW their body to be shared by a MARRIED COUPLE. (eeew yuk)..... WILL NOT take a penis that is being USED HEAVILY by another. WILL NOT be so selfish and nasty as to BELIEVE she is doing NOTHING WRONG!!!!!

I have been SELFISH and even over-confident in my lifetime... and no married man did I deserve to help myself to... I have also been LONELY AND INSECURE at times in my life... and NO MARRIED MAN did I help myself to.... Its all about self esteem, and OW in name itself proves they do not have self esteem and pride enough for her children as she should.

<small>[ November 23, 2004, 10:27 AM: Message edited by: giovanna123 ]</small>

Okay mods. Come out, come out...

This thread is beyond sad. I've MANY issues with our OW, but you know there are people out there that slipped up....made mistakes....who are WORTHY of some compassion. Who know their failings, yet somehow grow and become better people, better mothers, better wives out of them.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Maybe the OW will marry an abuser! Or a man addicted to drugs and alcohol.
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">And that is sick. My OW IS married to an abuser. She HAS low self esteem (as is evident by her behavior)...she is a product of her environment and upbringing.......but to wish this on someone, anyone? Nope. Never. I WISH UPON HER A NICE, GOOD, NOT MARRIED MAN (after she finally divorces) who will treat her as every woman deserves to be treated so she'll know the difference between good and bad. I wish upon her to pull herself out of her miasma, much of it of her own creation, I wish her a life as seperated from ours as humanly possible.

But no, not that she meets a beater.

No wonder my FWW/FOW friends aren't here. They are some of the most noble, gentle, knowledgable women I've ever had the joy of talking to. Would you wish a wife beater upon them? Because they hurt themselves and their loved ones once upon a time, but learned from it and grew from it...became better humans from it? You would wish that upon them?

I am far from a OW lover. All inculsive statement hater is more like it.

This thread is hurtful...no matter what the intentions - no matter the need to vent frusterations at the evils inflicted on so many without regard. This thread is hurtful.

I dont wish anyone any harm. I just wanted to help people vent out some of their pain.

There is a time for venting out pain and a time not to vent.....

Dealan, it's mighty big of you to see it that way.
But most of the women on this particular thread including myself are somewhat new and our hurt is still pretty fresh, so forgive us if compassion is out of the question right now. I mean c'mon these OW have devasted our lives (Not to take the shine off of our H's b/c they are 50% responsible)
but as anything does it's going to take time for us to be as understanding as you are. Truthfully speaking some of us may never get there and if we don't that's fine too b/c who says that we should try to delve into the recesses of their warped minds to try to understand and sympathize with them. If I want to be a "MENTOR" or "BIG SISTER"
I'll sign myself up for it.

Tan and Ba-ba,

Please realize that it's not just BWs that on this board. We have some FWW, some FWH and a BH or two. You DO realize this right? This is NOT just a BW board.

Where have my friends gone, you might ask? They've probably been run off because of all inclusive venting such as this. Do THEY need or deserve your salt on their wounds, no.

Temper your venting and do it amongst yourselves (I vent offline to some of the ladies here). This is a marriage building site for those of us who have an oc. That includes ALL who have an oc. And that means hurtful, all inclusive statements, while theraputic for YOU at the time, might be anathema to those who are trying to get past their mistakes and grow from them.

JMHO.

- Kimmy