My XW has been trying to see my son. Why can't she leave well enough alone. I understand the she gave birth to him but she hasn't been apart of his life in years.

A little recap. My XW had a C from an A which I have been raising as my own since birth. The courts gave me custody of him years ago and my current wife has adopted him.

So why can't my XW leave us alone. My son has the best of everything. My wife and I are even sending him to the best school so he can get the best education possible.

Why does she want to hurt my son?? Her actions are not hurting me but in the long run I am afraid it will hurt my son. My son is a blessing and I love him move then life itself.We were all doing good until she showed back up.

She is claiming that she was on drugs when she signed the custody papers so now she is trying to get everything overturned.

I wish that she would leave us alone and let me raise my son???????

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by blessing:

She is claiming that she was on drugs when she signed the custody papers so now she is trying to get everything overturned.</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">So she was on drugs and now she is allegedly clean, that still doesn't give her the right of pulling a Kramer vs Kramer on you and your family. Do you have an attorney? If not then I'd suggest you get one ASAP and see if you can get a restraining order against her. She has to know that there are consequences to ones actions and one of them was the loss of her son and marriage.

TMCM,


Yes wehave an attorney. My XW we think just wants money. But see is barking up the wrong tree. From the courts point of view my son belongs to me and my current wife. Yes even though this C is not mine by blood, he is mine by heart and soul.

How many other BS would raise a C from an affair even after a D ???? This C is mine and I am willing to go broke so my EW doesn't get him. I have raised him all these years. Where was she?? She was to busy getting high and laying on her back.

What judge in their right mind would over turn the adoption?? Anyone ever hear of such a thing??

No i havent. But I would be so informed that she wouldn't have a chance to mess w/ this child. If she truely has turned around, then PROVE it. B-4 I would let anything happen, if anything. Look at this site it may give you some answers.
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Blessing you and my nephew are in the same shoes sortof. He was married (he is now married to my niece by blood) and she got pregnant well they are both very white and she had an asian baby. His wife was on drugs and all too. The birth fathers father was a big wig and had his son's rights terminated so he could finsh school etc. Well my nephew has raised this girl most of her 11 year life. The mother comes around once in awhile and they have not legally adopted her yet, but would like too. The mother has a drug problem as well. My niece is her mother and they make a great family and my great niece is the precious of all. They have to move out of state and the bio mother just gave them permission leagally so we are hoping that the adoption will come soon too. Hang in there....I've never heard of overturning an adoption. We all have to live by our actions. you know what I mean?