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We waited to hear from somebody about cs and visitation so long we decided to do something ourselves.
After talking H called legal aid and they are going so help us file a motion for visitation.
I called legal aid to H's request to tell them to go ahead and file the motion for vistation and they are sending the information/paperwork to us.
Looked up Xow's profile on line and she has posted a new pic of her, her duaghter, and H's son, he's sooo adorable, can't wait for him to be a part of our family once H's visitation starts.
He is my H's son and my stepson, and I love him; even though Ive never seen him up close, does that make any sense.
Hope xow will realize we don't want to take him away from her, just want him so have his father, place and love from this side of Oc's family.
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angels, I think this is great! I hope that xow does not either. She should be happy that he wants to be in his life and along with that your family with him. Good luck and I hope this goes through quickly. I know legal aide here is long and drawn out. But it will be well worth the wait <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
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We hope this goes quickly,too, I hope legal aid doesn't go to slow,also.
Thanks for the wishes of good luck for us.
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We recieved paperwork/packet from legal aid today,we are working on filling it out.
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Hopefully it will go great! I am glad you are so accepting of OC.
I felt the same way about my OC. She is beautiful and a wonderful addition to our family. Not the way she came about but.....you know! LOL!
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Ent,
Ya I know ,like i said before ;just hope xow sees
i love and care about oc.
thanks for the words of encouragement.
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A, I'm wishing you luck and I hope it goes fast for you. I know it is very trying on your nerves. At first, ow seemed she would "work" w/ us and everyone be adults, but now have found out different. But remember, YOU and YOUR family have a legal right to be part of this childs life and YOU do have a legal right to live in peace! Those are the bases you need to cover. Dont let emotions control your actions. You and your H are a team for your family and your rights. Thats it. You are not a team against her. Choose your words carefully. The legal system can take one comment and turn it upside down, and make into a horrible thing. Like I said Good luck and I am praying for you. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> Sunny D
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Sunny,
Thank you for your words of encouragement and good luck, they are truly appreiciated.
and your right we are a little nervous on how xow will react.
Yes,We are a team on this.
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