How is it going havent heard from you so I thought I would get your own topic going so everyone can join in to give you advice!
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> Sunny D

Hey! I just posted under 'my story' for that other sweet lady...
I swear, I am at the point of being completely torn and totally clueless as to what to do and I HATE THAT. My H is so bipolar...some days he adores me and does everything right, other days he cusses me out forno reason. I told him this weekend that I feel like I can't count on him to be 100% supportive of me emotionallyand financially when this OC comes. Besides the fact that he still has contact with the OW even though I have asked him not too. He told me Sunday he hadn't talked to her in 5 days. I said How do I know that? What have you done to prove/show me that you want me to trust you again? He didn't say anything, and I said "Exactly." I love him so much but I refuse to be that wife - that crazy, jealous, who is he with what is he doing does he think I am sexy wife that looses all her hair cuz of the stress...

I see you put a due date? Do you know that for sure or gues-ta-mating? I cant believe he hasn't woke up yet? Is he still not living at home? How much time are you spending together? Did you give him the Plan B letter yet? What did he say? I hope with making your own topic thingy that maybe some of the oldies will help? They have helped me a great deal. Have you been going to the IC? And this MC thinks its OK for him to be calling and giving her money on a reg basis? Keep on posting and I dont really think I would completely give up on him yet!
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> Sunny D

I am guessing the due date. He does not live at home, and we spend time together on weekends but it usually ends inhim getting mad because I want to talk about this stuff and he thinks I am giving him s**t which I am not. He doesn't act like he wants to make the effort to be humble and prove to me that he wants me to trust him and be with him. We have an MC appt tomorrow morning. This MC was just trying to get us to stop yelling at each other last week, I think that is why she tried to say if he tells me about the talking then would that be OK and I just said I don't know and we ended it at that. She definitely said he should not be giving the OW money when we are struggling at home. I gave him the Plan B letter but we really haven't talked about it cuz I have been sick and we haven't been together alone ling enough to talk about it. I guess we'll talk at the MC tomorrow...

wondering, I posted back to you under "My story." take care.

<small>[ December 15, 2004, 09:10 AM: Message edited by: Whistles75 ]</small>