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Hi there. I was referred by SeekingTruth. I go to facereality but ST said to come here. I found out about my H's affair in May. Twodays later we found she was pregnant. She is now due in 18 days....with a boy. I found out 3 months ago, I am pregnant and I am due in June. Dealing with it before I knew I was pregnant was hard but lately, its been harder. She has been calling the house leaving horrible messages.....my H has agreed to do 50% custody but the OW just won't let go of him...........I wanted to keep it short because writing it all out brings back a lot of painful memories. Plus, just by the time my H and I have worked so hard to get back on track, the wounds will be re-opened again...............any suggestions orcomments? Thank you
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Suggestion on OW calling your home. You can have her stopped. Document the phone calls and what's said, call your local sheriff's dispatch and report them so it's on record. With enough documentation you can file a restraining order on her and possibly have her arrested for harrassment. Check your local phone book to see what your your phone company needs to report these phone calls. There is a process you go through. You can have her prosecuted, you can trace the phone calls etc.
Don't have time to reply to anymore right now, but there are lots of women on here that will give you good advice.
TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF FIRST
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thank you for the advice! I just wish she would stop because is causes way to much stress me for esp. me myself being pregnant
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Document Document Document. Have caller id? Have all of her calls recorded. Document. Then slap her with a restraining order. She has no business calling your home at all. Even if the child is his (which I highly doubt) she has no business calling and you do not have to take her harrassment.
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Hurt5-04:
My prayers are with you. I agree with the others about a possible restraining order. Is it possible for you and you husband to discuss ways of communication that you are both comfortable with. Once you have figured out and some agreeable forms of communication inform ow of them and why, to safe guard marriage! I would tell her verbally and in writting. I also want to encourage you all to document everything./ I think thats why I like written communication best. We always have a record and that way I dont have to her ow.
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