Tonight we; H,I & our children are going to ow house to give oc his christmas presents.
Hope all goes well. I will update when we get back.
I must admit I am both excited and nervious!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

<small>[ December 22, 2004, 09:25 PM: Message edited by: angels1966 ]</small>

sooooooooooooo...............
how'd it go?


ooo
xxx
kt

Hi Angels,

My H and I are going to OW's House tonight to give presents to OC too. This will be the first time. I'm nervous and excited too. I've seen pictures of him and OC looks just like my H. I think I'm excited because of the thought of getting to hold him. I hope she allows me to. I know I'll fall in love with him.

Let me know how your visit went.
Maybe it will give me some hope <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

let us know how it goes

visit was changed to Dec.23.
It went horribly!!!!
She once again refused contact, if I'm included. <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />
She's so damn selfish!!!!
I'm tired of her hurting all of us ;H,our kids and my self. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />
We ended up droping the gifts off at her place of work. The good thing is H let her know that getting the baby Christmas gifts was my idea, <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> & that he wanted to wait till visitation was established . So much for the Christmas spirit!!
We have tried so hard, so much for the sake of oc.
I told him I'm done no more of her BS, It's time
to protect us and our family. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />
To make a desion.
And some Xow's wonder why we do this <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> ,
we are given to other choice, because of what some (not all) of them do. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />
We want contact, however, we will not sacrifice our children and our marriage, because of her bs games, we must chose the greater good.
She apparently doesn't want a father for their son other wise she to would have done what is in the best interest of their son and all children involved, instead she cares only about herself!!! <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />

Tan, how did the visit go for your family? Hopefully better then ours!