Well, considering how she accostsed you @ the courts.....I don't think this is a good idea @ all!
BUT, if you are BOTH in agreement.....then put on that united front.
I would also suggest that the 'meeting' be in a nuetral place, ie; NOT OW home----too wierd dontcha' think?
Even more so after OW little stunt in court, imagine how she may act on her own turf---where's she's comfortable?
Hang tuff girl.
Be cool, look your best, it will make you feel mroe self-confident.
If it were me.....(even if it is immature <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> ) I would be sure to have some SF before going & leave a noticeable hickie on H! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Embarrassed]" src="images/icons/blush.gif" /> LOL just an idea.
BUt definately a NUETRAL place!
Can't wait to hear how it goes...............
PS: do NOT do it if you 2 have not come to an agreement about C yet though. YOu don't want to start a pattern/habit that your visits are @ the whim of OW. You must be in agreement about whether you are in this or not & if you are .....legal,legal,legal!!!!!!!!!!!
PLUS, decide BEFORE you go how you will handle any.... ahem! 'junk' from OW if anything comes up while you are there...such as, (if talk about A comes up) just getting up & leaving w/o notice or what.....be prepared for anything & you will have more control & feel better.
Even decide how much time you will spend there & stick to it!
A little signal between the 2 of you as well if one or the other is uncomfortable & wants to leave would be good too! kwim?
Just be PREPARED.the best defense is a good offense!
ooo
xxx
kt
