Things are pretty good right now. Christmas was good. We had bumps but they where worked out. The visitation papers are signed and done. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> A is a complete joy! He is growing like a weed and is starting to know the different voices. We are working up to over night, but with him being so young, he is almost 4 mnths. My D is starting to get into the "I'm a big sister" thing. We where off for 4 days and we managed to have him every day for either a whole day or 1/2. He still has the reflux thing going on so ANY suggestions would be great! As far as the XOW, she has her issues sometimes, but as a team we have managed to handle things. This is our life, we chose to exercise our rights to know, love, and have a choice in the development of A (OC). Anything worth having is worth fighting for. And we have and we will! The law us on our side too! And we have learned that as a team we can make it though anything.
As far as me and my darling? we talked last night about our resolutions for the new year. Reflexting back on this year, and I must say we BOTH have changed a great deal. Like last night he gets in the moods where its just UN-beleivable how much he "let us down" How much his mistake has cost this family. And how extremly lucky he is! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />
You cant change the past, its over and done with. We are working on making our M what it should have been from the start. And I will say its been hard to give up those little "habits" that in daily life you develope. We are learning the right way to communicate w/ each other for really the first time in our 12 yr M!
Its been a year since the A and I can tell you the anniversary effected me more than even I imagined! But its over and WE MADE it though it.
With this year behind us now we can truely get on with, living, loving, and laughing!
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> Sunny D
