DWH has decided no more contact with the STOW and the children. I'm totally conflicted in how I feel about this. I love those babies, but STOW is a nutcase and she gives me the uber willies. I KNOW we're the only true stability in the children's lives...heck, these past two weeks they were with us was probably the first time mija has been totally lice free since she was a baby (we had two comb out screaming sessions while she was here and I got them all gone!).

But he thinks that it would be better for everyone if NC is established. We'll see.

I could cry, but I'm also relieved.

- Kimmy

big, Big, BIG hug kimmy..........

It will be a withdrawal process for YOU now.

I know you put yourself out there. You put your heart out there w/ no concern how it would affect you, personally. I admire that 'b@ll$ out' <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> (lol) attitude!

And realistically.......NC will NOT be forever. That is just NOT realistic. Kids get curious, if nothing else & they will seek thier dad out, one way or another.

Hang in there hunny bunny.

I don't expect this will be easy for you.

But the peace in your marriage will be for the best, ultimately.

IT's hard, in life, when there are things that canNOT be made 'better' no matter how hard WE try. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

Let us know how it goes.

How was Christmas for you anyway? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />


....and hugs to Nio, these decisions are never easy, in no way shape or form, I don't care what any one thinks! <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />


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kt

Thanks KTbug! I was hoping you'd reply. Your logic is soothing, my Vulcan sister.

Christmas was okay. We had the babies for 2 weeks. I'm going to miss the heck out of them...Went to my sil's in Medina Co. They have a gorgeous house overlooking Medina Lake. It was lovely....can you say homemade tamales????? NUM!

What the heck am I going to do with all the baby stuff? DWH says we need to have a garage sale before we move to SAT.

Can you send their stuff to them?

That's what we did. I mean it did belong to OC, even if it was in our house.

Most of it I sent home w/ her the last time...but the rest we mailed to her.

Plus, we continue to write her letters & send Christmas gifts & will send her B-day gifts this month. There is never any reply but.....I expect there will be someday.

Do you think you can do that?


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kt