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#838992 01/07/05 06:30 PM
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Personally, I don't appreciate being threatened. Even if it was a joke.

But I guess you win by TKO.

peace,
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#838993 01/07/05 06:44 PM
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FIRST: where was the 'threat'?

SECOND: whatever! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />
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Your reply on MY thread just reinforced my point!

Why can't you see it? Really?

Why do you waste your time being contentious instead of giving the support & experience you have to offer to those w/ or considering C?

THAT is what so many of us don't understand?

From my entire post to you ALL you choose to see is the minute sentence about the wahmbulance? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

puuuuuuuhhhllleeeeze!!

You are NOT the ONLY FBW on this planet that has chosen C! Get over yourself!

We all have the same thoughts, guilts, fears, disappointment, pain & anguish, ect about C & OC.

Why can't you see that?

why, Why, WHY?

You act as if EVERYONE here is PRO-NC!!!! Have you NOT read sunnyd or dealan-d (kimmy/niosgirl) posts & threads?

And what about all the newbies that are dealing w/ C?

What about THEM ent?

OH NO! Ent just wants to be snide to those w/ NC!

In case you have forgotten-This IS a MARRIAGEBUILDING site NOT a C w/ OC site!

WE promote doing what is BEST to save a marriage! duh!


oops-gotta run....someone's @ the door-dang it!

ETA: I'm back.

Anyhoo........and you ALWAYS want to ignore the fact that OTHER children (besides OC) exist & may be hurt by C. I can't control or change that.

Some kids are ok w/ it, some are not, just like some BW are ok w/ it & some are not, JUST LIKE some OW are ok w/ it and SOME ARE NOT!

EVERYONE is different!
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I am not afraid or disarmed by opposing views. I think I have proved that. As a matter of fact, I LOVE opposing views.

And I think most here know it.

Why don't you REREAD my og post to you, just try it....you may learn something & maybe it will even be about me.


Sincerely,
kt

<small>[ January 07, 2005, 06:03 PM: Message edited by: ktbunch ]</small>

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Why don't you REREAD my og post to you, just try it....you may learn something & maybe it will even be about me


"let's take it outside" isnt' a threat?
I don't have to "learn" anything from you. Just as you don't have to "learn" anything from me. Just another opinion to add to the mix.

ent

<small>[ January 07, 2005, 06:15 PM: Message edited by: entwifejmr ]</small>

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oh PUHLEEZE! You know I meant that as---taking it off the thread it was started on so that it would not TJ tic's thread! GMAB! you know, 'outside' the thread! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

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Yep, I guess not. If you aren't willing to learn than what are you hoping to OFFER?

You og post to me was NOT a 'differing of opinion'.

IT was a direct challenge of the FACTS that I have presented within the context of my OWN situation regarding C w/ OC & OW behavior!

There is a BIG differance between having a 'differance of opinion' & challenging facts!

You don't have to beleive me. THat's fine & unless you were here to witness MY events, there is no way to prove it to you.........that's why I asked if you wanted me to LIST everything so that you could have more 'proof', even then it is STILL my side of the story.

But it's funny how you IGNORE all my questions & challenges to you. Talk about someone who can't handle a difference of opinion. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

YOU are NOT even willing to discuss something.

You just continue w/ your highschool wit & banter. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

Why don't you go & rant about me somewhere else, spread your self-righteous joy & gossip about all the horrible, 2 faced, BW 'over here'--somewhere else!(you know where!) You are good @ that!
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I mean obviously you are NOT willing to offer any support or advice from what you have learned from your OWN experiences.

So why do you even keep coming back here? Why waste your time picking on those of us who have made our choice & even tried other choices?

IT doesn't bother me one bit. I have shown how I can hold my own. But these newbies.....unless you are offering support to them.......they don't need your harrassing posts nor they do they even need to know that it even exists.

They need SUPPORT.
THey don't need to feel isolated & shut out becuase people like you, acting so narrow minded, can only see ONE way----their OWN way, instead of appreciating how hard this is on everybody.

They don't need to feel on guard in the ONE place they can find relief from the fact that IRL, many of us are dealing w/ this ALL alone!

When you are willing to pay MY lawyer fees, console MY hurting children & read my mind--------then you can BLAME me!


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<small>[ January 07, 2005, 06:43 PM: Message edited by: entwifejmr ]</small>

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Why don't you go & rant about me somewhere else, spread your self-righteous joy & gossip about all the horrible, 2 faced, BW 'over here'--somewhere else!(you know where!) You are good @ that!


My my my....a bit touchy. I am not going to stoop to your name calling ...etc. If there is something you want to discuss....then just tell me what you would like to discuss.

ent

#838998 01/07/05 07:47 PM
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I'm not going in circles w/ you.

I've made my points.


kt

and that was NOT name-calling, those were just proper uses of appropriate adjectives. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

#838999 01/07/05 07:52 PM
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Have you called the "waaahh ambulance"? I just couldn't help myself....lol <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

peace,

ent

#839000 01/07/05 07:58 PM
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No need.

Are we in a 'must-have-the-last-word' marathon?

I would love to continue (& I would win <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> ) but then I would only feel like I was arguing w/ my mother. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

No need to revert to back to childhood.

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Don't know about you but I'm calling it a day, and a GOOD day @ that.

It's too bad that this many posts had to be wasted on useless babble instead of some productive discussion or advice, ESPECIALLY w/ all the newbie posts today about OC being born, CS hearings, visitation difficulties, plan b's ect. You know, the 'real important-real life' stuff.


kt

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