Gio,
Well, there I go posting with no tact again.

The way I look at it, yep xMM has ditched his child. And yes, I agree, I ditched the W & BC but I'll be a STOW and say "Not my marriage/commitment". People got ditched and there's no way to justify any of it.

Regardless, you & H are married, if you want children, you deserve to have children together. And yes, you were robbed of a child (referring to the other thread) and most OW's recognize this. It's your H. If anyone should be having your H's children- it's YOU!

I was simply pointing it out that if you had posted this on an OW website- it may be considered "putting in a knife and turning it" as you were accused of doing. But I don't see how posting it here is a whine or even cruel to others.

I wonder if Jenna thought MarriageBuilders was like Build-A-Bear.

You can come here and build your own H.
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

Clo?------> I think we're rubbing off on you. Dare I say? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

LOL

good one w/ the build-a-bear/husband. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> Reminds me of the twilight zone where they built a grandma..Body Electric........always one of my favorites.

And I'll be a STBW & say "not my child/responsibility".


(But I LOVE build-a-bear........love to take the ktbunch for their b-days!...don't ruin it for me! LOL)


xoxoxoxxoxoxoxxoxoxoxxo
kt

Gio, I maybe out of line asking you this, but......I'm going too <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> Who is this jenna? Do I know her? Have I crossed paths with her before? You seem to recognize better than I do. Are you inclined to say names?

Just a hunch Mary-------- but since I'd be merely guessing, it wouldn't be fair to say who I *think* would rush to sign up and post this to me.

Whoever it was- she didn't upset me any. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Giogirl~

I've found some good deals on Prada at Overstock, and of course there's always E-Bay.

I need to dig around to find it, but a little over a year ago, I wrote down a cute little description of the "perfect" diaper bag from some magazine I was reading in a doctor's office. If I find it, I'll post it, you'll get a kick out of it. I'm the same way--it was no pastels or anything cutsie looking for me this go 'round. Luckily, a lot of woman must feel that way, because it's a lot easier to find baby essentials in black and/or khaki than it was awhile back.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> I wonder if Jenna thought MarriageBuilders was like Build-A-Bear.
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">CLO - Thank you berry much for that laugh. I almost spewed pop out of my nose!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

KT - Can you believe I've never been to Build-A-Bear? There's not one here or in SAT. The mommies went to one at a reunion in Las Vegas, but I didn't go on that trip. (sniff)


AD/Gio - I carry a black leather backpack that is big enough for a nippy (paci), couple of diapers, one of those thin boxes of wipies and a bottle. It also serves as my purse. It's absolutely perfect - I'm always hands free for the kids, and I never have to worry about it sliding off my shoulder and bopping a young 'un in the head.

Thanks for teh reply GIO

Just trying to make and handling things pretty well (for now). H has recently REALLY seem to come out of the FOG, and has been so much more attentive to me and MY NEEDS, its the greatest feeling in the world. Now, H & me are talking about having another baby as well. I have always wanted another one, our sone will be 6 in Sept. now woudl be a great time, I know i am young but I always say when Im done having kids I waNt to be DONE!!!!!By the time I am 32-35 I want to be completely done and I willbe 27 in Oct. my H says he would like 3 more kids <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> I kind of think he is crazy <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> but we will see GOD Will show the way and if this is what we choose I know GOD willnot let us suffer, thats a long time off though. Just having as GIO SAYS BABY FEVER right now. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Like I said before H would have me barefoot & pg forever if I let him! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> Talk about baby fever! LOL

I think it hits when 'baby' reaches 2-2.5 yo, which Liberty IS right now. But she's the first/only girl really & she demands a LOT from me. I don't know if I could handle another girl. That scares me.

My 3 'wicked step-sisters' (3 teenage cousins <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> ) got into a fist fight w/ each other the other day, over a pair of SHORTS!.......so I don't know about having more girls. (I suspect it was some misdirected & pent up anger/rage <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> )

Although, I've always said, they need to be in even numbers so maybe if there had been 4 of them......LOL <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

whatever.............just give me some more time to 'get things settled' & then I'm sure I'll be ready for another one. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />


xoxoxoxoxoxxoxoxox
kt
who's probably TOO responsible for her own good! LOL

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by ktbunch:
<strong> Like I said before H would have me barefoot & pg forever if I let him! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> Talk about baby fever! LOL

I think it hits when 'baby' reaches 2-2.5 yo, which Liberty IS right now. But she's the first/only girl really & she demands a LOT from me. I don't know if I could handle another girl. That scares me.

My 3 'wicked step-sisters' (3 teenage cousins <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> ) got into a fist fight w/ each other the other day, over a pair of SHORTS!.......so I don't know about having more girls. (I suspect it was some misdirected & pent up anger/rage <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> )

Although, I've always said, they need to be in even numbers so maybe if there had been 4 of them......LOL <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

whatever.............just give me some more time to 'get things settled' & then I'm sure I'll be ready for another one. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />


xoxoxoxoxoxxoxoxox
kt
who's probably TOO responsible for her own good! LOL </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">KT, even numbers don't make a difference. My twins love with a passion to each other and fight to a passion with each other. I love little girls......the fun with it all, but they are drama! OY!