I saw your reply on the "Forgiving OW" thread and was surprised to see you posting again. I've been thinking about you since you disappeared a few months ago.

I was curious as to how you are doing? Please let us know, ok?

Not much has changed. As you know (and if you don't) H will be in jail for about a year. So far OW has been with 2 different guys but H won't believe it. I haven't talked to H or heard from him since Nov. He actually called to wish me a happy birthday - go figure. I hadn't heard from him in 4 months before that. We had a nice conversation. He seemed genuinely concerned about my feelings. Then I did go and see him (he'd asked) and the whole time he talked about OW and OC. Said all he cared about was his little girl and couldn't believe OW was doing anything wrong, even though his own sister saw her out with another guy. I get some comfort in knowing OW doesn't have him right now either but it looks like OW has other men. I saw OC and she is adorable. Does not look like H though. Even though H's name is on the BC, her H is paying CS. H won't ask for a DNA test, his ego won't let him. I'm just living day by day, going to work and doing what I have to.
Thanks for the concern.

Dear Cyn,

It is good to hear from u, u have been on my mind many times in the last few months.

Sorry that not much has changed, looks as if your H will have to see OW's true colors with his own eyes in order to believe what he has been told.

U r in my prayers as always.

Thanks! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Cyn one way or another it's going to work out for you. If I was you, I would not put ow in your head at all. You've got time....h in jail and all.........with doing alot of thinking without infuluences or confussions. I truely hope that everything works for you for the best. Hang in there.