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I just wanted to clarify your response to my post - "OC - C or NC".

You said "I am the OW with the OC" and I just wanted to make sure I understand:

You are an other woman with an other child?

OR

You are the other woman with the other child that is specifically involved MY situation? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

I just want to make sure I know who's who. It would be odd to post where my thoughts are being aired in front of the OW involved in my situation, and if that's the case I feel as though I need to know.

In no way should you take this to mean that you shouldn't feel free to post here or that you are unwelcome. I just thought your post was worded oddly and I want to feel like I'm on the up and up.

Thanks,
AVNL
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Sorry4,

I hadn't read any of your posts (or at least paid attention b4 seeing this post addressed to you), but let me just say KUDOS to you on your attitude in this whole situation. Maybe all the judging of OW (including on my part) has been because of the horror stories we hear here and with living out our own. I think your attitude is very healthy for you and your child and I commend you on your awareness.
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AVNL,
I must apoligize, I haven't been online in a few days, so I missed your post until now.
No, I'm not your OW.
I know sometimes I don't make sense. I am just trying so hard to get out how I feel (which I don't even understand) that I get all jumbled.
And not all of us are totally horrible people.

I just lost my way, but I am finding my way back.

We all make mistakes right?

No one is ever so lost, that they can't find there way home again.

THANKS

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