Hello Everyone, Well it started last Friday night my sister and a friend of ours asked if I wanted to go out with them ( this is not something I do often) I asked H and he said that was fine the only stipulation he had was that I had sex with him fist. I hate to sound pathetic but I felt like that was just his way of marking his "tree". I really was not in the mood and I told him this. About ten minutes later his sister who only comes around when she wants something shows up at the door and is ranting and raving about how her and her x got into a fight and he bit her. Now she has put this man in jail 2 times I feel like if she won't leave him alone she can't expect much from other people right? Right about them my sister shows up and we are about to leave and he says to me just remember. So I asked him just remember what? he doesn't answer so I leave he comes running out of the house and tells me that this is what started his affair to begin with and if I didn't want him to do it I should be taking care of his needs. I agree with him to a certin point however we have had a very healthy sex life for the past couple of months and it was not like he was sex starved or anything. So I told him that if that is how he felt then more power to him that I was his wife and not his sex slave. I left with my sister and friend and we had a great time that night. The next morning he wakes up fighting. We live in my home town and he is mad that he has met some of my ex's so he sat in my face and called me a whore. I got so angry that I left the house and went and stayed the night with my girlfriend. While I am at her house I find out that Friday night after I left at 9:00 he woke up our son and nephew and drove them across town just so he could drink. I was so mad I could have killed him. Then I found out that not only did he have this 3 year affair he was also sleeping with the 17 year old from across the street. I am so mad. I moved out on Friday got my own apartment and I have a true serinity inside of me. I don't want to go back and I am not going back I have decided that I deserve more than this and I refuse to continue to be treated this way. I just had to get this all out Thanx For Listening !!!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

(((SOinCO)))

Sorry you had such a rough weekend.

Keep your chin up...and good luck.

AVNL

I am so sorry for your situation. I have said a prayer for you and hope things begin to improve. How did you find out about the other affair?