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I wnet for my ultrasound this morning ladies and I am waiting the FINAL word from my Dr. but it does not look good. THe lady who did the ultrasound siad she could not see anything, which to me means that I did have a miscarriage. I was in tears, i am just now in a bad mood, I am really upset, because I keep asking myself what did I do wrong. So now, I want to make sure I can have another one. I know they say this happens for a reason, but it hurts. My H seems to think its because I have been so stressed out.
I want to ask my Dr. when can I try to get pregnant again, and when will i stop bleeding.
Please keep me in your prayers. Thank you for all your prayers, if in fact I hear something different from my dr today I will let you guys know.
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I'm so sorry.......I hope everything is ok. Did they have you on bedrest this past week?
THIS IS NOT YOUR FAULT. There is nothing you did or didn't do.
I remember way back when.....my dr. told me that many women are extremely fertile after a miscarraige so if this is what has happened, after your body heals you should be good to go.
I'm sorry hunnybunny.
Whatever the reasons are......I know it still hurts your heart.
BIG hugs to you. kt
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(((((WG)))))
Will keep praying for you.
Kt's right, you didn't do anything wrong so please don't beat up on yourself.
I've heard the same thing about being very fertile, post miscarriage.
Take care of yourself, and let your H spoil you. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
Hugs, ~ad
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I am so sorry. I know this is a very difficult time for you. I have been praying for you and will continue to do so.
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{{{{{{{{{{{{{whitegirl}}}}}}}}}}}
Praying for you!!!
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I'm so sorry WG. (((((WG)))))
Either you already miscarried, or it was a blighted ovum (in that case, the embryo stops developing very early and m/c). I had 2 m/c for hormonal imbalance, 1 blighted ovum, and 1 fullterm loss. I'll talk privately if you want.
Hugs and sorrow, J
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Thank you guys so much. THis is my first EVER miscarriage so its hard. <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" /> This is why I did not tell anyone in my/his family I was pregnant. I dont want to get the ohh iim sorry from them, just do, So Thank you for your thoughts and prayers.
Hopefully H will spoil me. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> I deserve it right about now.
I just have to find out from my Dr. now how long I have to wait before I try again.
I cant thank you guys enough, if it werent for you guys I dont know where I would be.
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<small>[ February 17, 2005, 11:40 AM: Message edited by: whitegirl ]</small>
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Jenny here is my email address
peggyd424@yahoo.com
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Got it! Email on the way.
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Big Big hugs to u sweetie, praying for u, I know how much u wanted this but God does not make mistakes & he will see u thru this just know that & bless u even better than u can imagine.
Love u!
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A friend of mine had a miscarriage and her doctor told her to wait 2 months. Don't know why, but either way, it shouldn't be long b4 you can try again.
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Thank you guys so much for all your support.
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(((((WG)))))
I am so sorry. I know it is so hard to understand or hear, but you know, like Waiting said- God does not make mistakes. Remember where your little spark is right now- with God and smiling.
Wishin you and your H much love and hope, WG.
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WG,
I am soooooo sorry about your news. I will continue to keep you in my prayers. I know that it is hard and I am saying this because I've been there (H and I lost our first)!! <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />
But I do want to say that it'll take some time, but it does get easier and no you never forget, but you move past it.
Two months after I was pregnant with my son, and a year later with my daughter. So it is not the end and GOD will and does answer prayers - so keep the faith always.
W2E <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by whitegirl: <strong> I wnet for my ultrasound this morning ladies and I am waiting the FINAL word from my Dr. but it does not look good. THe lady who did the ultrasound siad she could not see anything, which to me means that I did have a miscarriage. I was in tears, i am just now in a bad mood, I am really upset, because I keep asking myself what did I do wrong. So now, I want to make sure I can have another one. I know they say this happens for a reason, but it hurts. My H seems to think its because I have been so stressed out.
I want to ask my Dr. when can I try to get pregnant again, and when will i stop bleeding.
Please keep me in your prayers. Thank you for all your prayers, if in fact I hear something different from my dr today I will let you guys know. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">whitegirl: I am so sorry! Speaking from experience (8 miscarrages) I totally understand where your coming from. It's not your fault. I'm just so sorry!
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Whitegirl,
My prayers and thoughts are with you at this time. Did they actually SAY that is what it was? I guess I didn't know if she just couldn't find anything and has the doctor spoken to you? I wish you the best through this hard time. Just remember that there is a reason behind everything (in my book). <<<<<<HUGS>>>>>>
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Hey whtgirl--------I emailed you but jic-----here is a site you can post a memorial for your baby. IT is a site for babies lost to stillbirth, miscarriages ect. www.babybunny.nettake care of yourself, kt
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