H is moving his stuff out of the house today. He took as much stuff as he could. OW says she doesn't want to be w/ him, but he says he loves her and wants to make things right w/ her. It all makes me sick that he can be this type of person and do all of this to me now. He still says he will do the things he said he would do, etc... but we are going to try not to have contact. I just can't believe all of this has happened. He admitted to another ONS today. I just need to figure out how to move on somehow. I also need to make an appt. w/ my lawyer to get the paperwork started.

BIG BIG BIG BIG HUGS to you Wife. I'm not really sure what ONS means? Like I've said before, I just DO NOT understand why if someone doesn't want you, why are you going to TRY and pursue something that obviously has NO FUTURE?? Unless, she is just toying with him?!?! *sigh* I am so sorry and wish I could offer the right answers. But please, be strong and don't give up. There is ALWAYS a light at the end of the tunnel. Just think, 22 days till your ultrasound to find out what you will be having. Focus on POSITIVE things right now although I know that is harder to do right now. Keep your HEAD high and REALIZE that you are the BETTER one in the situation because your H is confused and doing things he will regret later down the line. He will try and make things work with her and you know what, HE IS GOING TO GET BURNED! Please please take care of yourself! If you need anything, let me know, although I don't know what I can offer.

(((((((((((((Wife)))))))))))))))

I'm so sorry you have to go through all this crap. Believe it or not you are better off with out your H in your life. You don't need all the lies and him exposing you to god knows what. Stay strong and take one day at a time.

Michelle