Please pray for us!

OW just called Nio and is SERIOUSLY considering giving us temp custody of the babies. Apparently, this is the 3rd time CPS has been called on her...she never told us that!

Oh, dear Lord, I know it'll happen in Your time, but please?!?!

I love those kids!

Prayers are you the children and you!!!

Temp custody though?? If this is the thrid time she has had to deal with CPS then you guys should have a good chance at permanant custody.

Thanks sweetie!

Baby steps, baby steps. I can't look a gift horse in the mouth, kwim?

I've had my hopes dashed upon the rocks way too many times these past 3 years or so, to be able to get them up too much.

Prayers and thoughts are going your way! I just don't get it the lice and all, but thank goodness I've never experienced. People tell me it's normal to get it as a kid, but how many times? I hope that God plays his hand in this.

Sending up a S O S Prayer for you!!!

Prayers for you, Nio and the babies. Those children and Nio are so lucky to have a lady such as yourself in their lives!

Oh my Gosh, the 3rd time?! Go for custody!!

May God be with you,
J

To say I hate, loathe and destest the little kooze would TOTALLY be an understatement.

How such a pathetic waste of air could produce two such joyful assets to the world defies logic. Tis further proof that God knew he was sending us the silver linings to our clouds.

So. Apparently, she was dangling the children before us like carrots before a mule. Later in the week she called to tell Nio that she spoke with her mother and her mother has promised to help her "get things done she needs to get done." Um, like her mom is going to clean her house for her, pick nits out of the kids hair and get the kooze a job? Whatever. We'll see how long that lasts.

In her little phone call, she had the nerve to tell Nio that she was going to feed mijo and ask if we have a high chair at our house and does mijo sit in it (of course he does...why have the effing thing if it's not for mijo?)....Then she gets all catty and asks, "Don't you JUST miss the heck out of them..." Again with the guilt/heartstrings thingy. He said, "Oh, I see what you're doing," and hung up on her.

Then Saturday morning at 4:35 IN THE EFFING MORNING, who calls? Yep. You guessed it. Guess who was drunk and sobbing on the phone. Oh yeah.

She says, "Is your wife sitting right there? I know she is..." Well, duh, you COW! You called MY house!!! We're thinking she got in a fight with her new boyfriend and was trying to pull Nio into the drama again. After making sure the kids were'nt with her, he hung up on her and we went back to bed and snuggled. (take THAT! COW)

Oh...and on our Sunday night call to the kids, he asked what was up with her calling like that, and she played it like, "I didn't call you, what are you talking about???" Duh...have the incoming call logged on the cell....she is SUCH an idiot!

ARGH!

Can't you interven the mother thing since Nio is there father? It seems enough has happened that you could do that? What are you options right now? What is her mother like? I don't know, but I think it would be worth a try.

Her mom is a STOW, also. Infact, the tart is an OC.

I dunno Mar. We're trying to get our duckies in a row and trying to move to SAT (Nio's got a couple of depts that are looking at him). We both think we'd have a much easier go of it if we acutally resided in the same county....It just takes time. The background checks alone take almost a month...then there's the review board interviews...ARGH!

Nio's on his way right now to pick the babies up for our visitation. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

It's so unChristian of me, but I really wish she'd hook up with some man and VAMOOSE-ki! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

- Kimmy

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Dealan-de:
<strong> Her mom is a STOW, also. Infact, the tart is an OC.

I dunno Mar. We're trying to get our duckies in a row and trying to move to SAT (Nio's got a couple of depts that are looking at him). We both think we'd have a much easier go of it if we acutally resided in the same county....It just takes time. The background checks alone take almost a month...then there's the review board interviews...ARGH!

Nio's on his way right now to pick the babies up for our visitation. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

It's so unChristian of me, but I really wish she'd hook up with some man and VAMOOSE-ki! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

- Kimmy </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Kimmy your also human! If you always thought of good thoughts and was perfect than you would have been nailed to the cross. KWIM? Well it looks like you guys have a plan then. That is good. I know about it taking time. I have a few friends that are in the same field. So her mom is an ow and she is oc? Amazing. Histroy replaying itself. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Histroy replaying itself.
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Yeah. I DON'T want that for the kids. It's obvious the way her mum DIDN'T take her aside and give her holy what-for for taking up with a M man (infact, welcomed Nio with open arms - the whole family just accepted it - shoot one of her brothers actually calls him on a regular basis just to shoot the sh*t) speaks volumes to their attitudes towards infidelity.

I know if I had done what she has, not only would I have had been read the riot act, it'd have been force fed to me through a feeding tube! Not to mention my whole family would have taken him out back...not that they don't want to anyway, but still!!!!!!! There would've been no accepting this with open arms, I must say!

Kimmy. Yes I know what your talking about. It was very hard telling my parents what happened. Of course I had to show that I meant what I was doing in order for my dad to well forgive me too. I was not raised like this and knew better. All true True True.

(((squidges Mary)))

You are a better person for all you've been through, you know. THAT is what counts, in my estimation (for what it's worth).

For that matter I am a better person for this, also.

Wish OW could've learned from all of it. Sad for her, but not for me.