I had my baby and am now back from maternity leave. He is cute as can be in came in at 9lbs+. I forgot how much work they can be, but my H has been great. He stayed with me the whole time at the hospital, even did all the diaper changing and got up with me during the night for feedings since I couldn't pick him up on my own (c-section). I was kind of amazed, but he is in love with his little guy.

I know I am a FOW so I will try not to post on this board. Just wanted to let you ladies know I thought of you and how you feel about the child being innocent in all of this. When I look at my little one, I feel that 100%. They are not to blame for the situation they have been brought into, and they are so adorably sweet!!! Besides, my M has been going very well and this sight just ends up depressing me and making me think marriage is a doomed institution. I'd like to think some survive... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

And for those who don't know me, he is not an OC. We planned to have him.

findingmywayback!!!!! Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh that is a big boy! OUCH. I'm glad all is good and healthy and your doing so well. You know what please keep us posted. Your marriage survived and that is very good!

Congradulations!! What a big baby!
Alot of marraiges do survive and thrive. It sounds as if yours is going well.

Congratulations, and time to change your siggy line! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Duh, thanks for pointing that out JM!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

Oh Finding! Yes we remember you!

CONGRATULATIONS on your strapping bundle!!!

You as well as any WS who needs us is always welcome!!!

Thank you for the well wishes, I really appreciate it. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Oh yeah, one other thing... I think I saw momto3boys on Dr Phil. I watched it a couple of times and happened to catch one where I thought it was her on there. This lady was an attractive blonde and he showed her a picture of the OW, she had never seen her before. Does anyone know if that was her?

<small>[ February 28, 2005, 11:50 AM: Message edited by: findingmywayback ]</small>

FMWB,

Yes, that was her!!

And you still need to change that signature line again,,,that should be **FWS** not WS,, <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Congrats on that darling baby!!

<img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> Got me again!! LOL

I changed it, let me know if you guys see anything else I've goofed on. I'm so sleep deprived right now, there's no telling... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

I can't wait to get home to see my little guy though, did I mention how cute he is?? lol <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

I don't know what momto3boys H is thinking, she's a very attractive woman. Just goes to show you it's not looks, or even personality that drives these men. It's mostly a need to feed their ego, I believe.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by findingmywayback:
<strong> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> Got me again!! LOL

I changed it, let me know if you guys see anything else I've goofed on. I'm so sleep deprived right now, there's no telling... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

I can't wait to get home to see my little guy though, did I mention how cute he is?? lol <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

I don't know what momto3boys H is thinking, she's a very attractive woman. Just goes to show you it's not looks, or even personality that drives these men. It's mostly a need to feed their ego, I believe. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Feeding there egos? Now that is something I never thought of <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> I think your on to something fmwb! I can relate to your sleep deprive and it will get better I promise! Enjoy your bundle of joy. They grow up so fast.

Congrats. 9lbs.... <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" /> Ouch! But what a great ending for you.

I think know that it is very possible to heal from this. You did!! Sounds like you and your new family are all headed down the right path to a full and enriching life!! It does happen, all the time!!

Best wishes

Thanks Lynn! The last two weeks of my pregnacy where really tough, I felt like I was going to pop. At least I had a c-section, and it was scheduled so no induction to go thru. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> Thank God!

Congrats!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Nice size baby. Only 2 of my 5 were under 9 lbs, I thought those were to tiny

Take care of yourself and your beautiful boy!!