Kimmy,

Wow.

You rock.

Wow.

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Hey, I feel left out! LOL

I consider OUR marraige recovered too!
The A WAS 8 years ago!
WE took soem major back steps when we began C w/ OC but that wasn't due to the A but OW antics.

We renewed our vows this past October for our 12 wedding anniversary & it was WONDERFUL!!!!! (I think it was even better than our original wedding)

I won't ever say I am grateful for the A, I would much rather have preferred God to just SMACK that crap outta us than take this route....but I will admit that it was a HUGE wake-up call; for us & we will NEVER allow our marriage to EVER get that vulnerable again!

The emotional & mental scars are pretty harsh.
But we live & we LOVE & we go forward w/o looking back too often. LOL

I think it is much better to have made it through w/ your marriage intact than move onto another marraige w/ the same baggage wearing you down. IMO

I hope Mrs. Lost is reading & eventually posts. But you don't have to sign in as "Mrs. Lost"...maybe "Ms.I-know-right-where-I-am"!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> LOL

Keep going forward Lost.

xoxox
kt

oops! dbl post!

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