I don't often have a lot of time to read on the forums, but I just had a chance to peruse a few of the threads here and I feel that some things need to be said.

This forum was NOT created for betrayed wives only, or even betrayed spouses only. It was created for anyone who is affected by the pregnancy or child of an affair. While that does not mean that OW's may come here and abuse other members, it also does not mean that non-OW's should feel justified in slamming OW's here simply because of the fact that they've been or are an OW.

From the main forum page:
Alerts for objectionable posts: Please be sure to use the "Report Post" option if you find a very objectionable post you want the moderators to see - a copy of the post will be sent to them along with whatever comments you wish to send.

If someone is out of line, let the moderators or myself know! We have a tool available on every forum post which allows you to report that post to the moderators. USE IT. I don't want to see 10 page threads with BS's and OW's beating each other up anymore. So much energy is being wasted on huge threads like that when it could be used to Marriage Build.

The Marriage Builders forum is open to anyone. We don't exclude people based on which side of the affair they were on, like some places appear to do. We DO exclude people who are abusive of others. So, since I am NOT all-seeing or all-knowing, and since the mods aren't either, please - TELL US - don't just tell each other.