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Just wondering how many WS spilled the beans... #842516 03/18/05 04:29 PM
Joined: Jan 2005 Posts: 243 A aVictimNoLonger OP Member
OP aVictimNoLonger Member A Joined: Jan 2005 Posts: 243	On a holiday? I've read a lot of stories where d-day was a holiday, or very close to one. D-day #1 PA OW#1 My H told me on New Year's Day while I was in the hospital being treated for preterm labor. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> D-day #2 EA OW#1 My Birthday. WONDERFUL! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> D-day #3 EA OW#2 My Birthday the next year. Rah, rah. WS sure have a warped view of propriety. Why would they ruin such special days? GUILT, maybe?

Re: Just wondering how many WS spilled the beans... #842517 03/18/05 04:49 PM
Joined: Jan 2005 Posts: 312 W Wife30 Member
Wife30 Member W Joined: Jan 2005 Posts: 312	Dday #1 for me was 2 days before my birthday. However it was not H that told, but and anonymous caller. H came clean after the phone call. Dday #2 was a couple of days before Valentine's. Again it wasn't H that told, but OW.

Re: Just wondering how many WS spilled the beans... #842518 03/18/05 05:19 PM
Joined: Aug 2004 Posts: 12 E exfrodo Junior Member
exfrodo Junior Member E Joined: Aug 2004 Posts: 12	For me it was Mother's Day 2003. The real kicker is that I have had 2 miscarriages and have no children of my own. So Mother's Day was already difficult for me and this adds insult to injury.

Re: Just wondering how many WS spilled the beans... #842519 03/18/05 05:23 PM
Joined: Aug 2004 Posts: 12 E exfrodo Junior Member
exfrodo Junior Member E Joined: Aug 2004 Posts: 12	For me it was Mother's Day 2003. The real kicker is that I have had 2 miscarriages and have no children of my own. So Mother's Day was already difficult for me and this adds insult to injury.

Re: Just wondering how many WS spilled the beans... #842520 03/18/05 05:25 PM
Joined: Apr 1999 Posts: 8,016 C Chris -CA123 Member
Chris -CA123 Member C Joined: Apr 1999 Posts: 8,016	Night of December 25. What a present, eh? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> Something was worng and I asked a few questions...

Re: Just wondering how many WS spilled the beans... #842521 03/18/05 06:22 PM
Joined: Sep 2004 Posts: 88 T Tylorsstepmom Member
Tylorsstepmom Member T Joined: Sep 2004 Posts: 88	My H didnt tell me. The IRS did. After I confronted him he showed me all the court papers Jami had filled out. One of the questions was. "what was the date of conception? her answer Aug.4th. My H's birthday. They rented a hotel room right outside the base. <small>[ March 18, 2005, 05:23 PM: Message edited by: Tylorsstepmom ]</small>

Re: Just wondering how many WS spilled the beans... #842522 03/18/05 11:57 PM
Joined: Feb 2004 Posts: 13 I Itisforme Junior Member
Itisforme Junior Member I Joined: Feb 2004 Posts: 13	Weird stuff D-Day #1 the day after Christmas, it was just the general I love you but not in love speech D-day # 2 week before my B-day busted him flat out at ow home I must say this was the worst D-day #3 finding out about one yr old oc 4th of July 2003

Re: Just wondering how many WS spilled the beans... #842523 03/19/05 11:39 AM
Joined: Dec 2004 Posts: 199 H Hurt5-04 Member
Hurt5-04 Member H Joined: Dec 2004 Posts: 199	dday was mothers day 2004 after a nice weekend up the coast.

Re: Just wondering how many WS spilled the beans... #842524 03/19/05 03:54 PM
Joined: Oct 2004 Posts: 242 L LBelle Member
LBelle Member L Joined: Oct 2004 Posts: 242	It was on my oldest son's birthday.....March 24, 2004. One year anniversary next week.

Re: Just wondering how many WS spilled the beans... #842525 03/19/05 04:44 PM
Joined: Nov 2004 Posts: 215 C colddayinJuly Member
colddayinJuly Member C Joined: Nov 2004 Posts: 215	D-Day was nothing special for me, but will remain a noteable day in history for the rest of my life. According to OW due day, most probable day of conception was on our anniversary!!!! H swears it wasn't that weekend and I believe now, that it was actually 2 days later, but still, that hurts.

Re: Just wondering how many WS spilled the beans... #842526 03/22/05 10:22 AM
Joined: Dec 2004 Posts: 164 M Michele Hall Member
Michele Hall Member M Joined: Dec 2004 Posts: 164	Labor Day weekend 2003 while we were on vacation w/OW and her H. Some vacation, let me tell you!!

Re: Just wondering how many WS spilled the beans... #842527 03/22/05 10:42 AM
Joined: Nov 2003 Posts: 46 M Miss Lady Member
Miss Lady Member M Joined: Nov 2003 Posts: 46	It was close to Valentine's Day and NBA All-Star Weekend (a national holiday for WH apparently!). You know, I've heard of guys trying to break up with the girlfriends before Valentine's Day so they won't have to buy them anything, but this is ridiculous! Even though I wasn't in much of a mood to do anything remotely romantic, I actually bought WH a card anyway. What made discovery extra trifling was that my baby sister discovered A before I did during the Christmas holidays that year. Ever since then, what had been a joyous occasion for our family has been tainted.

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