<BR>After the smoke cleared from last night, I was so mad. I told my husband not to bring my son around her. I went out for a little bit with my bro and came home to find that my H had my son over her house. I went over there to get him and she started to call me names and threaten me. Finally after she had called me enough names, my anger built up and I called her one back. She did not like it. She came running through the door outside and jumped on me. I had no choice but to defend myself. So, now she has a shiny eye. I did not want for that to happen, but, she started it.<BR>My bro went over there tonight to talk to his kids about why he hasn't been staying there. As he was telling them the OW started crying hysterically. When my bro was done, he went to talk to her. He told her that people make mistakes. She then asked him "if I wanted you to come back would you?"...He told her yes, of course I would. What does this mean??? Is she starting to realize what they are doing is wrong???..Now, whenever my beeped my H today, he would call me back with a total attitude. When he called me tonight he was sweet as pie, I asked if he would like to come and see is son for a bit, and he said "please could I?"..He sounded as if he was crying. Now, my son knows everything that is going on with my H and the OW. He told my H today that he doesn't want anything to do with her and if he marries her, he doesn't want to be his son anymore. All he kept saying and crying is "you are breaking my heart daddy"...It tore me and my husband to pieces. Then when my H comes here tonight, he grabbed my son and was crying uncontrollably saying "I am so sorry" over and over again. Do you think they might be feeling some remorse now with how much everyone is hurting????<BR>I really want to do everything to win him back again...<BR>Help!!!<P>

How dare he do that to you and your son!!!!!!! I am so angry for you....I would like to punch her other eye and then lite into him <BR> Sorry, I just can't believe <he> would treat your son to that!!! I HATE what some people do to their children. It wasn't physical abuse but it was definitely emotional abuse! Okay I'll come down off my high horse now, could someone get me a stool please? <P>------------------<BR>Peg

Tucci,<P>Sounds like your husband is starting to get some of the impact of what he has done. For now, put your revenge emotions on the back burner and just concentrate on improving your marriage. I know you can do it!!<P>John

I forgot to mention that I asked my H if they slept together and he said no. He told me it is like a close friendship right now. That she listens to him and shows that she cares. My bro asked her the same things and she also said that no they have not been intimate, that it is just like a physical attraction they have. When he came over last night, I was very nice to my H and told him, I don't want to fight anymore, we need to start to take down some of the wall and communicate, and right away he says, don't think we are getting back together. I really think he is starting to have remorse, and thinks if he keeps pushing me away, it will be easier on him.