I am writing this as if I were writing this to my wife:<P>Hon,<BR>You just left to go out. I am sad you are gone. I already miss you. I donot know what you are going to do, but I trust you. In the last 2 days since I found out about him I have always been with you. I feel I am smothering you. I know you say I am not, but I feel I am. I have alot on my mind, are you going to see him? I dont know. Are you happy with your decision to work it out with me? I hope so, I am. I cannot bring back the 8 yrs i have taken from you but I will love you for the rest of my life. I can only hope you will fall in love with me again. "They" might say I am a fool. I dont care. "They" say that you are a bad person. I know it isnt so. My mind i running so fast I cannot type everything for I want to keep this short. I care for you. I love you. I pray that I will be able to fill the void that this other man has filled. I trust you. It may have not been a physical relationship with him, But it is the hardest one to cure, your mind/emotion/feelings. I swear I will try. I have never been this scared in my life until this time. I thought I had reached the peak when I was in the Marines. But it doesnt compare to now. I want to thank you for taking a chance on someone who hurt you so. I dont care what "they" say. All I know is I love you. Please tell me how to help.<P>Your husband,<BR>Chris

I like it it is very nice. and I wish you all the luck in the world<BR>I'll add you and your family to my prayer list.<BR>Lesa<P>------------------<BR>"Trust in the Lord with all thine heart, and<BR> lean not unto thine own understanding." -Proverbs 3:5<BR>Take care and God Bless.<P> lms20ish@jobe.net

Welcome <B>Chris</B>...<P><B>Very nice indeed</B>!<P>Your love is great...<P>I have a post of general welcome post I wish to share with you... <P>It has a lot of quick links to many of the <B>most</B> important MB sites...<BR>Click here ==> <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum29/HTML/000002.html" TARGET=_blank>General Welcome for All New Builders(Newbies)</A><P>For some clarity... a short time ago the "main" forum was divided into 4 separate "sub" forums...<BR>Staying in the <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/cgi-bin/cgiwrap/marriage/forumdisplay.cgi?action=topics&forum=General+Questions&number=28&DaysPrune=10&LastLogin=" TARGET=_blank>General Questions</A> forum will give you the most responses! <P>Best wishes... keep posting.<BR>Get the book <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi6070_sa.html" TARGET=_blank>"Surviving An Affair"(SAA)</A> and start on <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8113_ab.html" TARGET=_blank>Plan A</A>. <P>Jim

Chris,<P>Seeing your name reminds me of happier times. Times when the only bulletin boards I checked daily were on hunting of fishing.<P>Of course some hunting and fishing memories remind me of other things too. My one steelhead trip this fall was one of the times my wife felt safe to spend the night with OM because I was out of town.<P>Now hunting and fishing don't sees to matter until my wife and I can get things straightened out.<P>Just wanted to let you know that there are others of us out here. You are not alone in this. Don't worry about what your hunting buddies or other people say. Be true to yourself and work for what you want.<P>